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Confessions 18w
time to cut off one of my close friends. Sucks but she’s crossing lines that are too much.
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

she’s married. has 2 kids. wants a divorce. he told her no, she just accepted it. complains about him all the time, but doesn’t take the groups advice on it or our support. she has a serious drinking problem she said she’d get help for, she didn’t. Instead she’d text the GC extremely drunk knowing we didn’t like it. and she is in love with one of our friends and kissed her when they were both drunk, and then immediately texted another man we work with that she loved him but also loved —>

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Trying to escape through alcohol, how old is she?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

her husband. and she also takes her anger out on her kids and has yelled at them in front of me when all they wanted was their mom. and she constantly makes up excuses and acts like we don’t offer her support at all when that’s all we ever do. so im cutting her off because at this point if she wants to act like we don’t give her support, then she doesn’t need what we have to offer.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

She’s 25.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Just misdirected anger and a feeling of being trapped. I’m actually a therapist, do you think she’d talk to a neutral person

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

She said she was going to start going to therapy and said she has been, but we’re not sure we even believe her on that anymore because she keeps lying to us too.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

She’s saying it but not doing it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

Yes! That’s the problem we mostly have with her is she keeps saying she’ll do something and then doesn’t do it. Even when we tell her we’re here for her and will help her, whether it’s finding a therapist, finding her a divorce lawyer, going shopping to help her mental health, etc etc. and then she just doesn’t take us up on it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

So you’re cutting her off, what about the rest of the group, are they at the end as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

One of them is, the one that she kissed. She’s at the same level as I am. The other girl in the group isn’t really involved at all other than being concerned for her drinking problem

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