Anonymous #1 1d

like 18-20 okay maybe, but 21+ you should know how to cook and you should have a job lol

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Anonymous #1 1d

i’m 18

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Anonymous #1 1d

my dad refuses to teach me how to cook because he’d rather prepare my meals for me

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Anonymous OP 1d

alright that’s different, i don’t know what they’re expecting you’re basically still a teenager at that point, you haven’t experienced life yet lol

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Anonymous #1 1d

not in a mean way at all, please soak that up!!

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Anonymous #1 1d

yeah haha it’s rlly annoying. they expect me to have my own house and a 9-5. like dude! ur getting what u signed up for 💔

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Anonymous #1 1d

Not basically… truly still a teenager

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Anonymous OP 1d

Also very sweet your dad wants to make your meals for you but if you’re interested in learning he should teach you!! You can also watch shows! My dad and I bonded over Top Chef and Chopped when I was younger :)

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Anonymous #4 1d

ooo nice!! tysm for the suggestion

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Anonymous lightbluehater 1d

AHAHAHA maybe like 28-32

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Anonymous #4 22h

not really. you’re legally an adult but basically a child.

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Anonymous OP 21h

Then if he doesn’t teach you teach yourself when he’s gone

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Anonymous OP 21h

Oh girl they weird asf

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Anonymous #5 21h

overly

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Anonymous #1 19h

This is true, legally an adult… eighTEEN also does constitute it still being a teenager… because it ends in “teen”…

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Anonymous OP 18h

Good lord

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Anonymous #6 18h

Oh ew

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Anonymous #4 18h

yes maybe it ends in teen but you’re not a teen…. you’re an adult lmao. idc what the word ends in, you are an adult regardless.

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Anonymous lightbluehater 18h

So now you’re promoting an 18 year old getting w older men when she clearly said her parents support her financially and emotionally? So my comment is ew and not what this kid is doing? Lmao okay

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Anonymous #6 17h

first of all. not a kid. secondly, i obviously don’t intentionally and ONLY go after men significantly older than me. a lot of the guys that r closer to my age r typically already taken or are more interested in sleeping around since they’re freshmen in college. and yes my parents love me but im obviously gonna like who i like

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Anonymous OP 16h

Bro you are a kid and you’ll see a few years down the road. Yeah go ahead it’s your life 👍

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Anonymous OP 15h

Also this is coming from an actual adult, I just worry about younger women. An 18 year old girl looks young and does not have the same life experiences as an older woman. Men who date 17-19 yr olds tend to either like having power over their partner or are very inexperienced in dating. Just be safe and don’t allow to be manipulating, your brain isn’t close to being developed as you think

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Anonymous #6 15h

yeah i understand and appreciate the concern. unfortunately the min u turn 18, 65% of the guys that will show u the most attention r much older whether its irl or online. the younger ones r players and the older ones r manipulators so i just try not to take anyone too srsly

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Anonymous OP 14h

I am actually sorry you’re experiencing this. I hope a good man comes into your life. But a small piece of advice, have fun when you are young, especially with your friends. Do not worry too much about dating because the right man will just appear. Most people find their husbands nowadays in their late twenties so don’t lose hope with the immaturity of guys your age! Good luck, growing up can be messy but it is usually fun

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Anonymous #6 14h

idk i’m starting to find that hard to believe lol bc it seems as though it’s awful no matter the age but ill try to be patient

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Anonymous OP 14h

Girlllll remember you are only 18, you have a long time to find a good boyfriend ( a lot of times it won’t work out but you’ll learn from each of them). Sometimes it’s good to join clubs (volunteering, sports, reading), you can maybe find a guy w the same values and interests as you. Also your parents have given you a good model of what love should be like. You’ll be alright ! ❤️

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