Anonymous #1 5w

And honestly I have no problem with discussing it or planning together but he tells me that I don’t bring him peace and that he’d rather hang with friends than be with me. Then he calls me names when we argue but I’ve only called him a name once and that was months ago simply because we had broke up for a stupid reason.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Yeah, dates can def be a mutual thing but it’s him expecting you to be planning all of it that’s wrong. Sounds to me like he just preferred you on the back burner and you’re better off without being someone’s second choice tbh

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Anonymous #1 5w

Yeah thank you I’m honestly not going back because it’s just been so much like I’m only convenient for him when he wants me too because he doesn’t even show me off like I’m his gf and I cook and clean and fold his laundry. I try so hard to be a good gf plus I wanna be someone he can come to but he tells me I would nvr be because it’s not my place. It’s like he doesn’t trust me but he’s okay with all I give him🥺🥺

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Thank you I appreciate it, I’ve been telling myself it’s not that bad and that I’m just overreacting and honestly I don’t have a lot of people to talk to about this so I’ve just kept it in.

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