Anonymous #1 16h

Who knows. lol. Prolly the same reason I see so many full ass adults get arrested and you see em on cameras begging to call their mom…. Cause they never grew up? Who knows that’s my best guess

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Anonymous #1 15h

why does asking for someone’s age bother you so much

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Anonymous #3 15h

I don’t think it does… I think it’s wild that someone cares so much that they would block people over age which was what OP wants.

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Anonymous #3 15h

Oh sorry. Guess you weren’t asking me

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Anonymous #2 15h

with how many 30 year olds have sent me dms and have mentioned my age (bc they all know it’s majority college students in this chat) as a turn on i don’t blame them for wanting to be proactively and block them first. i do the same thing tbh

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Anonymous #2 15h

lol i didn’t notice either

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Anonymous #3 15h

Oh I’m 30 and I have so many men fetishizing me for being older. Yeah it’s creepy. But it’s not age that’s the issue it’s that it’s an anon app and they are more prone to being creepy

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Anonymous #1 15h

imagining this line in court 😭

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Anonymous #2 15h

no it’s literally the age. like i don’t have 20 year olds going Omg you’re 21? that’s so hot you’re soooooo young. like it could not more clearly be about age in this situation

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Anonymous #3 15h

No I realize that but I have 21 year old doing that to me because I’m older. I’m just saying guys will be creepy regardless of age. If your young there’s a fetish. If your older your a fetish. It’s gross in general

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Anonymous #2 15h

on this app i want to chat with my peers if was talking with college kids and a 30 yo tries coming in like they’re one of us thatd be weird asf

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Anonymous #3 15h

Lol. The timing. Speaking of… a dm “into younger?” Yeah. It’s creepy.

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Anonymous #2 15h

right and god forbid i don’t want a space away from the old creeps

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Anonymous #3 15h

Like I’m here to chat not hook up. Like no I’m not into younger and I’m not into long distance. I don’t like to be fetishized for my age. So I get it. Just saying lol it doesn’t get better with age apparently. We’re all just sex objects to the icky men. SO to the respectful gentleman tho.

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Anonymous #2 15h

As a 29 year old man that enjoys just chatting with people and getting to know one another it’s annoying when it’s all assumed we are here to get off or look for nudes. This is not the app for that type of activity and I think some of us are civil it’s just a needle in a hay stack.

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Anonymous OP 15h

Not all older people on here are trying to “blend” in with the younger crowd some of us here are just wanting to chat and just hangout.

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Anonymous #1 15h

A needle in a hay stack is a way to put it for sure.

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Anonymous #1 15h

I just got done telling a guy in my DMS that I watched too much true crime. So everyone on here is a murderer until proven otherwise, and asked him for his alibi. 😂

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Anonymous #1 15h

incidentally, OP referring to other college students as “kids” so as to make interaction with a 30 year-old sound innately suspicious is very much the self-infantilizing I was referring to

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Anonymous #2 15h

why not turn off DMs?

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Anonymous #4 15h

Yeah that was kinda my point with my reply about the arrests. There are 30 year olds committing crimes then calling for mom when they get caught. Its weird to fetishize people for age but it’s also weird to solidly be an adult and call yourself a kid.

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Anonymous #4 15h

Honestly. I always forget. Sometimes it’s air on and sometimes it’s auto off. For example this says it’s off even though I don’t remember turning it off 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous #4 15h

i fear that’s just the phrase i’ve never heard anyone call them college adults 😭

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Anonymous OP 15h

You have a point. Weird. 😂 but yeah sorry creeps exist. We’re fighting them together sis, despite a decade or so apart

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Anonymous #2 15h

fair ‘nough, I have to turn mine off again sometimes even though I never switched em back on to begin with

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Anonymous #4 15h

And I don’t mind respectful DMs. Like if your interested and not creepy. HMU. Like if your near me and wanna play pickleball I need peeps to play with lol. But so many are straight up weirdos

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Anonymous #1 15h

i mean you’re allowed to be here do what you want but that doesn’t mean i personally have to want to talk to you

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Anonymous OP 15h

You’re absolutely correct:) more power to you. But you just seemed a bit aggressive - which I totally get that way too when men are creepy horn dogs. Just saying you’re not alone ☺️

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Anonymous OP 15h

fair, “college students” is a phrase too though

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Anonymous #5 15h

Go to porn hub for your fetish not an anon app to creep girls of all ages out. 👍🏼

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Anonymous #2 15h

a little yea bc i find when people react to being criticized for being older with crazy defensiveness it’s hella sus

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Anonymous OP 15h

but i usually find women are more chill with women age doesn’t matter as much in the club we all fam

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Anonymous #4 15h

dw i’ll get to you as soon as im bored of this

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Anonymous #2 15h

Fair enough lol

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Anonymous #5 15h

nah, I’m 30 myself and anyone my age who actually uses YY for horny purposes is an opportunistic creep like I personally don’t see what’s so weird about being on here for regular-ass chatting purposes past college age, but hitting on people on an anonymous app is a recipe for disaster in general

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Anonymous #4 15h

Totally agree my dude

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Anonymous OP 15h

just seems to me that if you were genuinely trying to avoid interacting in passing with people older than you, as opposed to just shit-talking strangers in hopes of getting a reaction out of them, you’d have blocked me immediately after quoting the post?

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Anonymous #4 15h

lowkey the reaction is more important to me like if you didn’t start out crazy defensive about your age it wouldn’t have even been very suspect in the first place. the reaction is what makes it weird

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Anonymous #1 15h

even if the userbase did skew significantly older, I can’t imagine being desperate & naive enough to think looking for that type of thing on here makes any sense

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Anonymous OP 15h

like if i were in your position maybe id be like hm i dont get why some of them care so much but i wouldnt try to argue against them being uncomfortable with it especially when the original purpose of the app was in fact targeted towards college students

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Anonymous #4 15h

I mean if I vibe with someone I’m not completely taking it off the table. But it’s definitely low tier consideration for me at least. Like I said. You gotta prove you’re not a murderer 😂

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Anonymous OP 15h

I mean, what I feel defensive about isn’t so much my age as it is the assumption that just because I’m on here, that must necessarily mean I’m trying to get up to NSFW conversations

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Anonymous #2 15h

Also facts like if things click it clicks but it’s not priority #1 here

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Anonymous #4 15h

Eh you’re a man. Unfortunately stats aren’t doing you any favors. I know that sucks tho but your gender isn’t particularly… respectful… on dating apps… let alone when they can hide behind an anon tag.

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Anonymous #2 15h

I’m not a murderer. Dm me

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Anonymous #5 15h

Allow me to murder your ego, then. Pass porn hub is waiting for you.

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Anonymous OP 15h

like of course I’m going to get defensive when I’m being dogpiled in a previous thread for pointing out that this app isn’t exclusively for college students and doesn’t require a student email address, you know? when those are both facts. and then me reacting negatively to those assumptions means even more negative attention? I’m just on here cause I like the format and there aren’t any other similarly-active anonymous apps. I sure as hell am not heading over to 4chan

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Anonymous #4 15h

you can be a weirdo without being a sexual predator fam

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Anonymous #2 15h

I’m literally not?? 😭 where is this assumption even coming from I’m nonbinary, I was assigned female at birth though. most of my life I have experienced misogyny firsthand. for years I couldn’t even leave my damn house without being sexually harassed

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Anonymous OP 15h

I do think #4 is a chill one chica. They may be rare but they do exist. Though you’re not wrong

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Anonymous #4 15h

yeah dude bc you could also just drop it and refusing to is weird and honestly pretty weird and immature at ur big age

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Anonymous OP 15h

Yeah I feel #4 has not been predatory at all during this whole thread. You seem to be pretty defensive which I understand from past experiences will happen but not a way to treat everyone.

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Anonymous OP 15h

people just being uncomfortable talking to people older than them is nbd though, it’s the actual accusatory behavior that bothered me. if you look at the thread you quoted, I was saying over and over that it was totally fine to block me. #1 and #2 kept telling me they didn’t want to talk to someone my age but then ultimately I ended up having to be the one to block them

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Anonymous OP 15h

#4 would be the one telling fucktards to screw off on our behalf. Take an ally where you can get it when they are rare ☺️

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Anonymous #4 15h

Wait did you block #1 lol she defended you 😅😂 what a cluster.

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Anonymous OP 15h

Maturity doesn’t mean not dropping something #4 is defending them selfs cause they feel they are being treated unfairly by you and they have self worth to defend themselves. So you keeping the argument going is also showing of your young age and immaturity.

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Anonymous OP 15h

okay, but what I’m saying is that people Were treating me like I must be a sexual predator, and that that feels really bad when I have zero interest in flirting with anonymous strangers online. I got defensive rather than just dropping it because I take this type of shit seriously—it doesn’t just pass over me like nothing when I’m perceived that way, and I wanted to explain myself. so I did explain myself and I just got taunted for it

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Anonymous OP 15h

also tbh in this context I don’t understand what “weirdo” would even mean if not “sex pest” / “opportunist” etc

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Anonymous #2 14h

I’m saying I blocked #1 and #2 from the quoted post, which I was the OP of

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Anonymous #4 14h

Ohhhhh. I see. My b. There’s lore to this thread lol

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Anonymous #4 14h

Hey #4 you honestly seem chill if you wanna chat dm me

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