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I hate how we measure success based on income, i just got a really good job in environmental science but its not gonna be a while before i can live independently and not at home, i watch other people start to move out and stuff and im jealous
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Anonymous 1d

You'll get there someday. You're on your own timeline, and success isn’t something other people get to measure for you. You decide what a successful life looks like

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Anonymous 1d

It’s ok. A lot of people living on their own are living paycheck to paycheck. Live with your parents for 2-3 years to save up a chunk of money and then you can move out

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Anonymous 1d

i promise it’s not you, i’m not sure where you live but the economy right now is difficult

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Anonymous 1d

you’re definitely not alone and it’s not anything you’re doing wrong. it’s the economy our generation has been handed. it might take a few years but it’ll work out. it’s normal to feel jealous i did too just focus on your own journey as much as you can.

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Anonymous 1d

People have already said it, but as someone that got a job at the lower end of what was possible and wanting to live in Florida, it’s rough. 67K a year becomes significantly less after taxes. I’ve chosen to stay home to save up money and skip out paying $1800 monthly since I’m not willing to room with strangers.

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Anonymous 1d

Impact on the world matters more imo

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Anonymous 23h

Coming from a entrepreneur success looks different for everyone. You gotta look at it deeper and see how blessed you are they’re able to move out but that means they’re gonna have more bills, stress because they’re on their own now, you don’t have to worry about that rn, all though my path and future is set my sister just graduated college and wishes she could have a job and is still searching. So you may not be able to move out but be thankful you have a job and something to hone in on

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Anonymous 1d

Also in the environmental field. I can sooo relate. Always follow your heart and follow your passion. Money can’t buy happiness

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Anonymous 1d

I do not make a lot of money and live in one of the most expensive cities in America. My family isn’t here so I’m jealous of people who have the option to just not pay rent. However I’ve made it work by finding very cheap rooms for rent (in great neighborhoods) and so far I’ve been happy. If you really wanted to move out that’s an option

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Anonymous 1d

I’m a therapist for troubled children and I would consider it to be an important job but unfortunately I barely make enough to survive 🥲

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Anonymous 1d

As someone with a full time job making 50,000 after taxes, I still have a second job to stay afloat

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Anonymous 22h

I’m also in environmental sciences and instead of renting, I’m buying a double-wide for only 300$ more than rent. I’ve worked all throughout my undergrad and now as I’m getting my masters i really need my own space 😭thank god we know someone who is letting us stay on their property for only utilities and of course the payment of the double-wide. Not a bad idea to look into mobile homes though!

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Anonymous 20h

don’t feel too bad most entry level positions in special industries like this take time and experience before you can work the high paying positions, as long as you have enough money and support to live then keep pursuing it,

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Anonymous 18h

if your goal was to go into environmental science, you are succeeding. thank you for caring about the environment more than money!

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Anonymous 17h

you're not alone. i'm living at home (been here since december) and just got a job 3 months ago as an administrative assistant. i'm not making really anything, especially not enough to live on my own. i'm hoping to get there soon bc i am ready to gtfo.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Thank youuuu its just tough when u know a couple people that make over 100 grand straight after graduating so its difficult to not compare, idk if i can see moving out at all in the foreseeable future but we’ll see im like starting a new job with a pay that i was once happy about and realizing its not good enough and idk how much i could climb the company but we’ll see i gotta learn to take it one day at a time

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Yeah ill see, we’ll see where ill be by then

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yeah ikk its difficult for so many people, environmental science is getting so many cuts rn just as i graduate

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Yeah me too im literally willing to have an apartment with the lowest standards as long as the location is good and its still so brutal

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

It just sucks when u cant live on ur own while doing the meaningful work uve always wanted to do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

it’ll take a lot of work but climbing that ladder will be so worth it, especially in a field you care about like environmental science

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Comparison destroys personality, stop worrying about what other people have

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 21h

Its not like less safe or anything? Arent the mobile homes like thinner or whatever like i wouldnt wanna live in an RV for that reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 21h

Yeah but how can u be happy w constant financial stress

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 21h

Like i definetly and taking the route of following passion in hopes that i can support myself independently if needed

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 21h

Thats good, im sorry you dont have that option but im glad theres that option

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21h

Yeah and its wild that such important jobs dont pay well when ur doing gods work, like troubled children getting therapy is soooo important im sorry it doesnt pay u very well

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

That is true to some degree, however each manufacturer is different and has different standards! The one I’m going with is def more pricey but is likely the best I can get in this economy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

I make 33k a year 🥲 it’s absolutely egregious someone with a degree doing that kind of work is making so little

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