Anonymous #1 5w

Nice guy syndrome does not work

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Anonymous OP 5w

I’m not don’t nice guy syndrome I just don’t treat them like shit and like actual people but because I’m not attractive and don’t have six figures I’m deemed not worthy to breath haha

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Anonymous #1 5w

You need to work on yourself bud. There’s plenty of guys with nothing that have a girl. That’s not your issue.

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Anonymous #1 5w

entitlement and insecurity and your two issues u need to sort out

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Anonymous OP 5w

Yeah have been doing that for 11 years and still doing it. It’s a lot of factors. Money and looks are the main two. Both can be changed within reason.

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Anonymous #2 5w

I never said I was entitled to a relationship or love. And yeah I’m insecure when I’m not a 10 out of 10 like every girl feels they are entitled to. I have low self-esteem that I’m working on

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Anonymous #4 5w

only to guys that treat girls like shit

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Anonymous #1 5w

this whole thread is based off of your logic of “why not me, i’ve been a “nice guy” and all the 10/10 shitty guys pull” so yeah it is entitlement speaking on your end and u can’t speak on behalf of “every girl” when u haven’t even gotten close to one.

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Anonymous #1 5w

Might I say, I am an attractive girl *according to most man’s standards* but I typically like guys who are average looking with great personalities. Their personalities make them so much more attractive to me. I have never felt entitled to a 10/10 and usually stay away from them because I feel they are players as a lot (not all) are. So that thought mentality or idea u have isn’t right. You need a little more confidence. Remember we all have different types.. someone will like you

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Anonymous #2 5w

I’m going off my experiences but yes that is fair I can’t speak for every women so sorry for generalizing

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Anonymous #5 5w

I’ve gone for all types of women (within my preferences of course) and nothing. I’ve gotten one match every 4ish months if I’m lucky. Again just going off of my personal experiences and observations so it could not be truly accurate so I’m sorry

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Anonymous #5 5w

Agreed, I’m a guy, but I found it funny how I was chilling at the beach earlier today and overheard some girls talking about a guy they liked, this girl was talking about why she liked him and said his face wasn’t that pretty but they liked his personality

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Anonymous #1 5w

Personally, I think dating apps aren’t a good use of time since you have to try really hard to show your personality off in them, and even then the girls in there are getting bombarded with so many guys it feels like a choice paralysis kind of thing. Meet someone at a bar and hang out with them a couple times as friends and maybe things will progress. If not, at least you have a new friend.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Yeah I just don’t drink but i guess I’ll have to start

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Anonymous #1 5w

Alcohol does make people lighten up, and as long as you’re cautious about it it’s generally not considered an issue. Up to you.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Yesss, it is kinda funny. We will actually be shocked sometimes when one of our friends likes a certain guy because nobody can understand how😅 I say a good personality turns a 7 into a 10

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Anonymous #3 5w

i can second this my chopped shyt is like a 3 and i literally model, but he treats me like a human so i’m very happy

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