cool and slutty it’s not want i find hot. i want someone respectful and fun to be around, someone who would be my best friend and lover, someone who is good with kids and future thinking, like sure you can be nice but the men who actually want to date want to see a wife out of you. if you’re just “nice” but don’t show anything else and don’t show a lot of interest you won’t be taken seriously by the men who want relationships