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Quote from my bf: “It’s just so odd like why you attract so much attention I mean obivously you’re very beautiful and carry yourself well and maybe that’s why but I feel like I don’t do anything differently but I never get approached” Am I cooked? 😭
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Anonymous 5w

he sounds jealous and insecure

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Anonymous 5w

does he want to be the boyfriend or the girlfriend

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Anonymous 5w

I’m not saying u aren’t beautiful and gorgeous but ur bf is not understanding a key difference between men and women under patriarchy is women are approached far more bc of their societal placement as a “prize” to be won, as opposed to men who are placed in the role of doing the attracting. He has so little understanding of this system that it turns into insecurity 💔 bro is dumb AND jealous

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Anonymous 5w

R u the girl from yesterday? Dump his ass

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Anonymous 5w

Odd??

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Anonymous 5w

Coming from someone in a relationship the opposite of this it is insecurity and also feeling ugly 🥲 my bf gets hit on the all time, constantly gets called hot and handsome, always gets compliments but literally the only attention I get is from him. Not that I want attention from other dudes, but sometimes I just feel ugly

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Anonymous 5w

He's jealous, and kind of rightfully so because men hardly get any attention unless they're perfect 10s. Meanwhile, any girl above a 5 probably gets hit on every now and then at least

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Men doing the approaching* I meant to say

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

That’s what I said, how is it odd 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

I’m going to this turned me off so much

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

right like why is he even comparing

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

He is. He literally admitted to humbling me when he’s feeling down about himself

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

what men do you know that are approaching women in this day and age? jesus christ i must be ugly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

I know one but he was a toxic manipulator who followed a ton of cold approach guys 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5w

okay and? humbling your partner so they feel insecure too is not how to go about things

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