Confessions on Yik Yak | I just lost my virginity. And I’m slightly freaking out. I’m 22. I was very comfortable with him. More so disappointed in myself for not saving it for a relationship. I gave into sexual urges and I feel like shit for it. 😕Will the feeling go away?

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Confessions 12w

I just lost my virginity. And I’m slightly freaking out. I’m 22. I was very comfortable with him. More so disappointed in myself for not saving it for a relationship. I gave into sexual urges and I feel like shit for it. 😕Will the feeling go away?

Anonymous 12w

i also lost my virginity at 22 with a man i wasn’t in a relationship with and my advice is to lean into the idea that virginity isn’t even real. sure you gained new experience, but don’t let that experience change you, at least not in a negative way. remember that it’s ok respond to your sexual urges as it’s only human to do so. as people, we have all types of urges and act on them, fulfilling sexual urges is no different

Anonymous 12w

nothing wrong with sexual urges. it means you’re healthy. id honestly say it’s not a bad thing to first have sex with someone you don’t care so deeply about bc the first time i had sex i was pretty bad. id rather learn the basics with them and then be able to woo my partner

Anonymous 12w

was in that exact boat a year ago. no the feeling doesn’t go

Anonymous

#2 12w

congrats on the new experience you’ve gained. yes, the icky feeling will go away. and even tho you may have wanted to lose it in a relationship, it’s not like you’ll show up differently in your next relationship. again, you don’t have to let this change you for the worst

Anonymous

#3 12w

i second this. my first time was also with someone i didn’t care too much about. he didn’t care that much about me (relationship wise) but he was kind and gentle and that’s honestly everything i could ask for. now i can go into new relationships with some knowledge i’ve gained from that experience

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Anonymous

#2 12w

No❤️