Calls aint fun unless you both wanna do it. Otherwise its one pressing the ither to yap

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Had one date with a guy and made it clear I don’t like talking on the phone and he straight up ignored me and called 10x in a row when I didn’t answer. He was already not getting a second date because he didn’t respect my boundaries but still calling multiple times months later on holidays almost made me report him at work. Next guy said he didn’t like calls either and we’ve been fucking for 6 months. The guys that get it GET IT 🤷🏼‍♀️

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I have a friend who I wish would understand this! I hate talking on the phone, and I’ve told her repeatedly that I hate it, and she never texts, only calls. And when she calls, I feel bad ignoring it, but sometimes I’m busy and can’t, or I just don’t have the energy to talk on the phone for hours. She then guilts me into calling (one time she told me she was going to crash her car driving late at night bc I wouldn’t stay up till three am otp while she she driving). And if I text, she just calls

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What if they’re the one calling and texting me

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b-but you’re not just playing hard to get? 🥺 it’s not like you’re capable of communicating what you want…

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