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I’m still angry at my ex from years ago and I feel like I have no where to put that rage because I sound crazy.
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Anonymous 3w

*Insert Frozen song here*

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Anonymous 3w

I know it’s easier said than done but you have to accept you aren’t responsible for other peoples actions and whatever they did was completely out of your control. Holding onto hatred is like poisoning yourself and expecting the other person to die. By holding onto your anger you’re hurting nobody but yourself, and you don’t deserve to be hurt any longer

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I’m aware I need to get over it, it’s tough.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I don’t like, feel responsible, or anything. I know what he did was his fault, it just pisses me off because I didn’t deserve to be treated like that and taken advantage of. And now he apparently thinks about me as “the one that got away” and thinks about what could’ve been? The thought of him romanticizing me after the shit he pulled, the work I put in to grow and heal, yeah it makes me mad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Your anger is valid, and it’s okay to sit with it for a while ❤️ just make sure it doesn’t start taking over your life

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Most of the time I don’t even think about him, honestly, but last night a mutual friend told me that he wants to “get closure” and that despite being in a committed relationship my ex still thinks about what could’ve been (my mutual friend claims lots of guys feel this way about their first serious girlfriend?) so it brought up some feelings

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