Anonymous #2 14w

holy shit??? let someone say no without being mad????

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Anonymous #6 14w

How did he tell you he was a virgin?

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Anonymous #4 14w

i’m allowed to feel emotions just like he’s allowed to say no! he invited me over just to hookup and waited until i was on top of him to decide he wasn’t ready. he never talked to me again except years later he said he regretted saying no. i’m not mad he said no, i’m mad he misled me and never talked to me again. i felt used. maybe don’t judge when you don’t know shit about it :-)

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Anonymous #4 14w

he sent me a disturbing video of a girl giving him a footjob without my consent. i’m not the one with issues with consent dear

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Anonymous #6 14w

this was me, i did so much research on how to be good in bed for when the time came lol and it definitely worked

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Anonymous #2 14w

how the fuck am i not supposed to judge when you say “i was mad when he changed his mind.” he didn’t mean to mislead you, but consent can be given and taken away and it just so happened he wasn’t ready! and if he did follow through with it instead of speaking up that he wasn’t ready, i guarantee it would have been much worse for both him and you.

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Anonymous #4 14w

ok lol i’m still allowed to feel emotions at being used for sex. i thought we were friends until he made a big deal about having sex with me just to reject me and end the friendship over it. i guess we were never friends bc men do that a lot to me. i promise you don’t need to form so many assumptions based on one singular comment without context. i’m allowed to be mad just like he can revoke consent :-) you’re mad about me being mad years ago… this is weird

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Anonymous #4 14w

you know you can ask for more context before forming an opinion right?

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Anonymous #2 14w

i’m just curious… how did he use u for sex when he never had sex with you? and also if i went to my gfs apartment with mutual expectation for sex and then the mood never strikes i could NEVER see myself being mad at her, even if we had plans to do anything. i dont see how this is even a topic up for debate

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Anonymous #4 14w

it’s not a debate lol you’re mad about something i did literally decade ago now?? you’re mad on someone’s behalf that was never mad. that sounds exhausting

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Anonymous #2 14w

i’m not mad at all i just find your posts to be weird. i’ve personally never been mad when someone doesn’t consent for sex, so i don’t necessarily understand how you feel but you do you!

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Anonymous #4 14w

i explained it pretty thoroughly, you just seem to be committed to misunderstanding

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Anonymous #5 14w

With his words lol We were long distance for a while before we met in person but we were already friends before that and the topic had come up before. It’s not something people should be ashamed to admit or talk about. The right person isn’t going to care.

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