Confessions on Yik Yak | HONESTLY it’s better to settle these days if you’re a man because the dating pool has toxic animal feces in it. Goes for women too but they don’t really have to settle.

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Confessions 17h

HONESTLY it’s better to settle these days if you’re a man because the dating pool has toxic animal feces in it. Goes for women too but they don’t really have to settle.

Confessions 18h

I think most men end up settling. Like I’m with a woman that I’ve been with for 3 years and I definitely settled, but I’m content and happy with her so whatevs

Anonymous 17h

are people that afraid of being alone they’d rather settle? no wonder you think relationships are miserable 😭

Anonymous

#1 17h

Yeah there’s definitely a give and take and its not black and white, but I feel like most people would rather be in a stable but mediocre relationship than be used, taken for granted/advantage of and discarded routinely too.

Anonymous

OP 17h

you do realize being single is an option right? there’s no gun to your head that says you have to either force yourself to date assholes or settle for someone mid. you can just be single

Anonymous

#1 17h

Correct you can be, no one’s stopping anyone but some people want the companionship, and not everything in life has to be or will be perfect lol

Anonymous

OP 17h

i mean i guess? i just feel like it’s really stupid to tell people to settle 😭 what good is companionship if you don’t even really like the person?

Anonymous

#1 17h

I mean yeah but there’s also levels of settling, again it’s nuanced lol

Anonymous

OP 17h

whatever you need to tell yourself ig