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Confessions 12w
AITA:I fear I want to be single to find myself again. I am in a 3 yr relationship with my bf but we got together too fast and too soon into my college years that I feel like I missed out on so much. I feel like he trapped me and I want to be myself again
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Anonymous 12w

You are an asshole, so yeah do him a favor and break up with him but be honest with him about your reasoning so he isn’t racking his brain for years trying to figure out what went wrong

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Anonymous 12w

NTA. I understand this post. When you lock yourself into something early in life you can start to change or feel like you might be missing out on something. It feels like getting married young. Your under stress because you dont wanna lose something good but you also fear that if you dont break now ull have waisted time. You have done nothing wrong. This is how growth works

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Anonymous 12w

you’re not an asshole these ppl have never been in a relationship

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Anonymous 12w

you’re valid and these people can’t comprehend making smart decisions

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Anonymous 12w

Be honest and clear with him. don’t waste his time

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Anonymous 12w

Onb just say you wanna get ran thru by other dudes lol

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Anonymous replying to -> internetuser 12w

It is completely natural to feel this way. Even though he did nothing wrong, that should be a good thing. That the relationship wont end on someone betraying someone else.

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Anonymous replying to -> internetuser 12w

Its important that in your relationship u can feel like u can grow and be yourself. If u arent feeling that way, u need to reassess ur relationship. Try taking a break so that u can exist outside your relationship. The main thing is talking to him about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

I really do want that. Do you want to be the first? I’m a gay guy btw

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

CLOCK IT

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

AW SHIT

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Yeah go ahead and oil up for me I’ll be there in an hour 🫵😏

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

#3 get ready

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

You’re not an asshole btw. You years ago and you now are different people however he is also a person and you should keep that in mind

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