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I’m honestly tired of all the men asking for sex and unable to hold a conversation if sex isn’t promised by the end of it
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Anonymous 8w

freaky ass frogs all they do is think with their dicks, no sexual discipline or control it’s pitiful

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Anonymous 8w

As a guy myself, that is unfortunately the #1 thing that guys want. It really bothers the living hell out of me.

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Anonymous 8w

and then the sex is terrible😔

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Anonymous 8w

Nah I know, it’s so aggravating that men would do such a thing, I can see how that would make u upset, wanna go have sex now

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Anonymous 8w

i solved this problem already by simply stop talking to men

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Anonymous 8w

they don’t understand they have the easy part of sex. sex isn’t painful for them!!! it is for me!

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Anonymous 8w

it’s so gross, but part of a bigger problem. it’s not an issue of being too open about sex, but the pressure put on men to show their masculinity by “conquering” many women. but the issue in this is that men have a higher threshold to acquire sex but are expected to sleep with many women, and women have a much lower threshold to acquire sex but are expected to sleep with few men. it’s a disgusting, patriarchal, colonial attitude that needs to die

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Anonymous 8w

THIS THIS THIS

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Anonymous 8w

You are going to find your man the best way is to keep doing you and you will find the man that’s for you

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Anonymous 8w

Then simply don’t give those kind of guys attention, you know what kind of man they are, don’t feed into it

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Anonymous 8w

Damn, tuff ig for me it’s when a girl says she doesn’t like me that way but still asks for gf treatment.

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Anonymous 8w

Dih

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Anonymous 8w

i was talking to this guy i met on campus and he was talking about us hooking up and i said i don’t hook up with randoms and he goes “okay so if i have to take you out, then will we fuck?” like no don’t even worry about it go ahead and lose my number

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Anonymous 8w

You’re talking to the wrong guys then😂

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Anonymous 8w

Where are you finding these men? Cuz if it’s Tinder, or really any dating app, y’all those are hookup apps go participate in hobbies you like. Join a Bowling Pickup League, Religious Young Adult Groups (if you are Religious), Music Festival Gatherings ect ect. Just keep going to those you’ll eventually find a group to hang with consistently and then go from there

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Anonymous 8w

get you a man who wants gex

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Anonymous 8w

it makes me so annoyed because they ask good girls instead of the ones that reciprocate what they are asking, then get annoyed like ok lol

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Anonymous 8w

Here’s your solution, stop fw lil boys and fw ppl that are older

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Anonymous 8w

I'm honestly tired

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Anonymous 8w

Sorry for existing. We men are worthless filth.

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Anonymous 8w

Hi yeah I’m too afraid of rejection to be that direct so don’t worry about me asking 😂

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Anonymous 8w

or even if they do- lowkey i want it too- get to know me first then get to know my 🌮

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Anonymous 8w

yall going crazy, keep going

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Anonymous 8w

Awh man did the other guy who got mad and wanted to fight on here block me? Gonna be real awkward later when he comes home and im having post smash smashburgers with his momma.

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Anonymous 8w

Girl, you need to talk to different men 😭😭

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Anonymous 8w

shit you just boring to talk to i guess 😂

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Anonymous 8w

I’m shy so this isn’t fair.

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Anonymous 8w

So can I give you some head

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Anonymous 8w

im a deep conversation kinda guy

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Anonymous 8w

Hold a conversation with me then..

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Anonymous 8w

Maybe get better at choosing the right men to talk to,there r plenty of guys who want to get to know u but I won’t let them cuz they aren’t good looking enough

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Anonymous 8w

Same for the females boring MFs

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Anonymous 8w

Your finding the wrong dudes lol

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Anonymous 8w

Most women really aren’t that interesting tbh. Talking about things that don’t matter is not entertaining.

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Anonymous 8w

remember ladies these men wanna only fuck because its you, if you truly had a personality and not just a sorry excuse for one, this primarily wouldnt be an issue! but do some men suck? yes. we call them gay

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Anonymous 8w

Another dumb ass post made by a female who cant know the difference between a man and a boy grow tf up and all the comments agreeing yall too 🫵🏾

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Anonymous 8w

And I’m tired of women not giving me a chance simply because I don’t have biceps, or ride a motorcycle or don’t have tattoos or don’t watch anime or not driving a truck or not having a boat

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Anonymous 8w

Tbh no hate but try making your self more valuable and fun that way that isn’t the only thing you have to offer to many girls on bs and wanna do lame shi become more fun and you will attract what you put out

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Anonymous 8w

Sorry ur lame ash

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Anonymous 8w

Women walk around half naked and post on only fans then ask why we sexualize them

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

What do the French have to do with this

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 8w

Op and i are gonna bang your mom. Get ready for some new step parents champ

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 8w

It’s partially biological till it’s just a goddamn PROBLEM

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 8w

It’s a cultural thing too my dude 🫤

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

where did french come from

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 8w

Yes, that’s totally the reason why some men have zero respect or sexual control.

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 8w

No bitches?

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 8w

Frogs is slang for French people, it came from the fact that the French language uses the back of the throat to speak it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 8w

Hey man, until every single boy on the beach puts on a shirt before they post on Instagram, and there are no more dudes cupping their bulges on OnlyFans, you can’t claim that women are “living on easy mode” and “asking to be sexualized” that’s not a gender thing bro, that’s pretty privilege

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

Never said women have it on easy mode I’m saying we sexualize them. Guys don’t care if u sexualize them. Just stop with ur victim mentality

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 8w

I care if people sexualize me. Thats why i wear a shirt to the beach. Nobody gets to see my moobies besides #7s moms and my onlyfans subscribers. And maybe yo momma next lil bitch

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Anonymous 8w

sybau stop talking like a grapist

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Anonymous 8w

You made a blanket statement against all women you fucking baby dicked incel. Are you actually this fucking dense?

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Anonymous 8w

What in the fuck is actually wrong with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

you’re a cornball

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

How cute back with another new alt lololol whats wrong pussy boy whered you run off to?

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

Glad to see you know the difference between your and you’re now elflaco. So proud of you champ you almost are ready for second grade lil dude!

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Anonymous 8w

I already told you where you could meet me before you ran off scared lil bitch lololol

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

u don’t live in dc

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Anonymous 8w

All bark and no bite and you wanna call yourself based lmao You a whole ass bitch who deleted his comments and got mad when people were downvoting him Whole temper tantrum lmaooo

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

Yes I do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

Let’s run up on folk

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Anonymous 8w

Ahhh so you are too scared then thats what i thought all bark no bite ass bitchhhh

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

no one scared u the one that wanna scrap how about u pull up den

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Anonymous 8w

Drop da lo

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

I already extended the invite first pussy boy. Dont try to flip the script lmao. Just run off and delete your account and comments again pussy lololol

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Anonymous 8w

Boston! Yo im up there next month! Where at bitch

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Anonymous 8w

YOU GOT THE RIGHT ONE TODAY SEE YOU IN AUGUST LETS SEE YOU BARK THAT BITE UP

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

I think bro pussy

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

Im fiending i havent gotten in a fight since the last marine corps ball i went too lets fuckin go. Get to beat up some incel making mad weird comments whos acting gangster on the internet too ez

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

🤣let me know how it goes beat his ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

pu to the common

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 8w

Real as fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

weird comments 😂 u the one typing the incel shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

and you bouncing on this 🥷 meat

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

Bet you better not flake out. But i bet when i come back to this post on august 23rd your bitchass gonna have all this deleted again pussy boy

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

what time goof

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

and send a flic too

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

😱omg it’s called instigating how about you worry about what you got in front of you instead of being a pussy lil bih☹️☹️

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

6pm dont be late look for the guy with the red and tan usmc hat and grey hawaiin with jeans.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

how about u see me too then pussy

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

none y’all 🥷 got jobs, put the phone down and touch some grass player 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 8w

who the pussy now

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

Still you lmaooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 8w

ong

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

Already had to delete your account and comments once from getting dragedd Waaaahhh im eleflaco and i got downvoted on a anonshitposting app because somebody didnt like what i said wahhhh

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

😂😂😂😂😂😂i’m laughin at u cuz u fanned tf out

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

Aint nobody believe that stop lying we saw that temper tantrum you deleted 😂

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Anonymous 8w

😂😂😂😂yo you so funny

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Anonymous 8w

just dated yourself wit that comment😂😂😂😂😂

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Anonymous 8w

i’m talking to an old head i shoulda known when all he could say was i didn’t know the type of you’re/your i’m using😂😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

Oh now im old? I thought i was a middle schooler before? So is this the new excuse for flaking out of fighting little bitch?

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

ur werid bro

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

So is this the part where you delete your account and comments again or you just gonna continue to find excuses to continue this bad troll charade?

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

Wait I’m dumb but very open minded. Please explain

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 8w

You’ve never seen a titty before bruh

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

Shi I will bitch boy

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 8w

I’m currently at work just instigating guarantee I make more than you but okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #40 8w
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Anonymous replying to -> #23 8w

The French spawned out of a piece of overly crumbly bread like the flys they are

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 8w

in out modern society especially with social media ajd the frequency of OF and p**n addiction a lot of people are openly viewing women as sexual objects and not much else. that and hookup culture

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Anonymous 8w

its on me that all men wanna do is fuck?😂 ok buddy

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 8w

THIS needs to be talked about way more. Sex for a woman fucking sucks if we’re not warmed up properly. If guys actually put in effort to make it enjoyable, I’d be seeking it out way more

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Anonymous replying to -> #48 8w

That’s why i make sure my lovely lady is well accommodated and before her same with everyone before regardless if it was just sex or anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

king

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 8w

I have 40 bodies each one gave good reviews and thanked me for taking care of them relationships/fwb/just sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

and THIS IS WHY you’re getting play.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

And treating them with respect

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 8w

Dude she doesn’t have to “prove herself” to you, you should just be respectful and meet up with your goals and expectations in line with each other; and communicate effectively

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

Not asking for her to prove anything. Letting her know that there are other people in the world that don’t want l sex out of a conversation 😂 fuck outta here

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 8w

You understand tone doesn’t translate well with minimum context right? “Hold a conversation with me then☹️” sounds like one of those pouty middle school incel virgins who ambush girls with a camera and a mike and DEMAND they prove girls are funny! Like, cmon, read the room🤦‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

“Erm, actually🤓” go do something else besides reply to everyone in a post on Yik Yak.

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Anonymous replying to -> #42 8w

It’s on you for talking to men like that grow up and surround yourself with people who aren’t like that and generalizing “all men” is your first problem which is why you can’t find a good one start to reevaluate before coming at me all my relationships have gone smooth I’m in a 5 year relationship currently with my fiancé and she would say the same thing I’m telling you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

careful with your words, some guys are into that

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 8w

essentially, modern societal expectations put a lot of weight and pressure on sex, objectifying not only women, but men, too, but in different capacities.

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 8w

You’re still replying tho jackass😍

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

Also outstanding counter-point, you really showed me!😛

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Anonymous replying to -> #37 8w

You making us look bad getting butthurt like that lil bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 8w

More “valuable?” 😬 Jasmine already covered ts in the 90s, why are we talking about these girls like stolen goods bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #40 8w

Anime bro? Really? Wouldn’t you get bullied if you WERE into it? I’m sorry you haven’t found the one yet, I hope you find the one for you soon, I really do, js make sure you don’t let your loneliness fester into becoming an incel

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Anonymous 8w

What in the micro penis bro🤦‍♂️smh “she asked for it😈” like wuhhh

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 8w

OH thank u!

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

Sure it’s not “all men”, but you can’t deny there is a societal issue with how women are viewed and it permeates dating culture. As a woman it’s exhausting and sad how commonplace it is to be treated subhuman and after awhile you burn out. As much as i’d like to be open to finding the “right” men to talk to, I have had a lot of strange experiences with people on first dates. It’s ignorant to blame someone for trying to meet people, obviously we know that person isn’t for us after.

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Anonymous replying to -> #55 8w

I do agree that absolute generalizations are harmful though

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Anonymous replying to -> #55 8w

All generalizations are false

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Anonymous 8w

Bro- some people just suck. You may have forgotten because you’re in a happy 5 year fairytale, congrats man really, but sometimes people aren’t great! And sometimes, often times, you don’t know that going in. Most don’t willingly subject themselves to people and situations they know are shitty. They just don’t have a 5 year fiance, so they take a chance, because even if it’s a tough process, it’s worth it to try.

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Anonymous replying to -> #55 8w

You’re objectively being closed minded and only focused on one side men are often times viewed the same or as a piece of meat to woman for example Micheal b Jordan you have to start taking a step back reevaluate notice patterns and not talk to guys like that and I’m not necessarily blaming I’m trying to get people to understand yes it’s unfortunate but you cannot continue to walk in the same issue over and over and over without realizing you may be doing something wrong or talking to the wrong p

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

You do realize that doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is just inherently insane and stupid so talking to the same kind of guy that only wants to fuck and expecting different is than on you, there are signs that will show that this guy ain’t shit or this girl ain shi but people choose to ignore it because he’s hot or has a decent personality that is then on them

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Anonymous replying to -> #47 8w

That is not a solution 💀They’re just as immature as the others and will probably hurt you more because they’ll think you’re naive

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

As a dude myself, the idea that men get more mature just by aging is actually laughable

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

Im literally not tho. If I am asked on dates I will say yes. It has nothing to do with Michael b Jordan😂. I’m very open minded when it comes to dating especially outside of my physical type. However I’m very discerning and if someone is obviously after sex only, I’m out. It’s just weird how comfortable some guys feel being straight creeps on first dates

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

“Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is insane and stupid” hey man, love is crazy! So, what’s the alternative? Are they supposed to STOP talking to people? Are they supposed to stop going out, putting themselves out there? What is your SOLUTION

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

Not really all men mature as they get older they just don’t show it or choose to acknowledge the brain develops as it gets older because it takes in more knowledge which allows for better understanding which in turn boost maturity but some people don’t choose to act mature hence the saying “act your age” or “act mature your … years old”

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Anonymous replying to -> #47 8w

“older men” is not the resolution, it’s the same outcome in most cases ☠️ age doesn’t fix trash behavior, older doesn’t equal wiser when the mindsets still garbage…

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

🤦‍♂️yeah man obviously scientifically speaking, PHYSICALLY SPEAKING, brain development isn’t over until 25, and biologically your body continues to develop over time, and lived experiences pile up the longer you’ve been, well..living. But immaturity in older people is more than just “not showing it or choosing to acknowledge,” some people are just immature, and immaturity flourishes at every age

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

I literally didn’t say that you shouldn’t talk to any men, your problem is you’re hearing what you want to and not paying attention to reason I said stop talking to the same kind of shi men you run into because obviously if you’re running into this problem 3x or 100x there’s a pattern and you’re just choosing to ignore it and continue to talk to that kind of guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #55 8w

At the end of the day, society condones this type of behavior. Instead of someone who treats women this way being outcast or shamed for their behavior, it’s often applauded unfortunately.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

Immaturity is a choice regardless of age but the truth of the matter is older people are always gonna be more mature because like you said yourself you continue to develop and experience new things

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

Okay, 1: I’m not “hearing what I want to hear” and I’m not “running into this problem” because I’m in a happy relationship..I’m also a dude. 2: “These kinds of shi men” as if dudes like this do not exist in various different flavors and environments. Like, some exist openly as assholes and others deliberately dull those qualities in public to lower their defenses, people run into these guys everywhere!

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Anonymous replying to -> #55 8w

That is true but the problem will never changed until it’s fully acknowledged it’s not just a thing woman deal with society has all type of problems that are applauded that shouldn’t be but everyone has to acknowledge their own part in it like I stated from the beginning not following the same patterns that lead you down that road

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

So what the hell are you arguing with me for if you’re a guy if bc then you would know that the truth of the matter guy or girl is there are shi men shi woman who will only want sex and not be able to hold a conversation but you have to take accountability and not walk down that same path with every man or woman you talk to you have to find change and be willing to make that change when you find it and even if they dull the qualities you can still tell someone objective by behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

Okay again my problem with this is I take issue with you shifting the blame, this post was meant to reflect a specific aspect of the problem, specifically the way men act towards and treat women in modern dating. MORE specifically, I take issue with you choosing to believe that women (or at least the women in this sub) are DELIBERATELY putting themselves into these situations when they have shared no indication that they are knowingly responsible for DELIBERATELY doing so!

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Anonymous replying to -> #55 8w

Micheal b Jordan was an example for saying it’s not just woman who deal with this so we cannot generalize and say it’s all me or only men

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

I never once said they are all deliberately doing I replied to someone who gave a hasty generalization about all men wanting to do was f*ck and it turned into this by other people replying but you also have to realize if the problem is occurring so much than they also play a part in it

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Anonymous replying to -> #50 8w

What do you mean by threshold?

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

Why am I talking about this as a man? Because whether or not I believe you are arguing here in bad faith, you are either directly or indirectly parroting nonsense talking points by relying on “whataboutism” to avoid the actual subject matter and in doing so promoting harmful ideas.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

My question to you is this: What SPECIFICALLY are women supposed to do better to avoid men like this?

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 8w

Boundaries

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

I’m literally not I addressed the problem and said if you continue to run into the same issue all the time than you also have to take accountability and you and everyone else is trying to say they shouldn’t take accountability because it’s not their fault because men are shi but the truth is if you can tell a man is shi and only wants that but you continue to go in that’s you play a part in what you’re going through as unfortunate as it is they have to deal with it because some men ain’t shi

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

The idea that older people are INTRINSICALLY more mature because they have experienced more things in life only works under the assumption that they learned the correct lesson from said experiences and are able to think critically about them, which are skills that people of all ages have sorely lacked throughout human history.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

Create your boundaries, learn the person you are talking to notice/look for red flags all people should do that

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

“If you can tell a man is shi and only wants that but you continue” MY Point is that you actually, fully, many times CANT! To claim that, especially in an engagement as turbulent as romance, you can have a clear, objective insight into what the other person ACTUALLY REALLY WANTS DEEP DOWN, especially when they themselves may not know because, again, it’s human relationships, is just not fair.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

You have to remember The guys that the post is about “guys who only want sex and can’t hold a conversation” RED FLAG RIGHT THERE!!! cannot hold a conversation and only wants sex which mean 1 Guy has made it known that’s all he want 2 He’s not holding a conversation which shows lack of interest RED FLAG meaning Gtfo and avoid it

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

Creating boundaries, learning about the person, and looking for red flags? That is all a far FAR more reasonable and appropriate suggestion. I like that a lot better. I would say though still, that it may take time to get to know someone like that, and by the time you realize they want something different from you (or THEY realize they do) you may have already invested time into getting close to one another, which is incredibly normal in Romance; as is the age old response: disappointment.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

You are forgetting what this post is mainly about and this has been my point this whole time that you cannot avoid these men if you are taking the steps (which I listed and you agreed with) which also comes to accountability when not taking the steps

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

in pop culture, it’s a slang term. you’re looking too deep into it pls

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

You understand though that all of these steps can be followed to a T, and some guys will still slip through the cracks? You also agreed with me when I said not all these guys are loud and proud assholes. Many times it takes more time to uncover that or for red flags to present themselves! So the idea that every woman must “hold herself accountable” and that those who do won’t have these problems is ridiculous

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

That’s not what this post is about it’s about the guys who cannot hold a conversation and want to fuck that means they aren’t hiding and you shouldn’t be talking to them bc it’s already a red flag and I never said you won’t run into the problem but it’s better to hold yourself accountable for talking to the same shi guys when you know you don’t have to your still going away from the original post this would be a different conversation if we are talking abt men hiding motives

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

And men who try to hide there motive 90% of the time get caught before because they aren’t as sneaky as they think hence this post about men bc they’re not as slick as they think they are meaning this person knew

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Anonymous replying to -> #65 8w

who tf pissed in your cereal ? bitter bob.. if the post is dumb, why comment under it? seems like the shoe fits you just right cinderella 😬

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Anonymous replying to -> #65 8w

Stop blaming women for guys bad behavior. That’s dumbass behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

Blaming woman for guys behavior 🤣 not all guys are like that and woman also need to walk away from men they know are like this and would able to deal with this less but instead most choose to stick it out and complain

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Anonymous replying to -> #65 8w

If your offended by this comment your part of the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 8w

Not necessarily I agree that to an extent everyone needs to take accountability for their role in it but just because she was offended doesn’t mean that because his comment was out of pocket and could’ve said it differently 🤦🏽‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

So are you trying to put the blame on the women for the experiences they’ve been through? When are men going to be held accountable?

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

Everyone has to be accountable goofy🤦🏽‍♂️ woman who walk into it knowing what it is and continues to go its also on them yes the man is completely wrong but the woman is also wrong because you choose to go into it and let’s say you don’t know all he wants is sex you already noticed his lack of interest in holding a conversation why are you still pursing take accountability for your faults as well even though the man is 100% wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

I disagree, of course women should not engage with these men. Again it’s not their fault and they aren’t in the wrong. The problem isn’t the women engaging. The women want to engage without men only wanting one thing. So how are going to let the women engage and the men do better?

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

now your being delusional to say something not someone’s fault when they go into something knowing it’s a red flag is not only delusional but it’s insane yes they should not have to deal with it but the fact of the matter is there are guys and girls who do this and if you know they are like this and still choose them that’s your fault if you what better you have to choose better

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

Says u

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

It’s not their fault if they don’t choose that man and the next one ends up being the same. That’s like blaming SA on what the female is wearing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #67 8w

Great advice! Because then you have some background and you aren’t just hanging out in a “date environment” you can get to know each other somewhat casually and as friends first.

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Anonymous replying to -> #55 8w

EXACTLY. The easier it is, the worse and less committal the relationship will be. Now granted not everyone can, will, or should turn to the like strict Catholic Sex after marriage mindset there’s definitely a middle-ground there. My advice is be friends first, then date for happiness, wait on sex until the relationship is solidified and committed, and then if eventually you make it to marriage congrats.

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

Now you’re going off topic the topic is woman being tired of the men who cannot hold a conversation and only want sex meaning they knew there was red flags and still went to it their fault your comparison sucks!

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

You don’t just meet one man and decide you’re tired of it. It’s obviously happening way more than it should be for plenty of women to collectively agree that it’s an issue that should be addressed

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

Exactly this. The person who made this post obviously encountered a guy who had different interests than her, so she expressed her frustration that she keeps running into men who share similar interests to him. Your attitude of “just pay attention” is redundant because..obviously? Doesnt decrease the amount of guys who are like this, only makes it easier to spot SOME of them

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

Are you upset because you think women are CHOOSING this every time? Or because you personally know people who know the guy is bad and go for them anyway? Nowhere in the post did she indicate that she went after him anyway, merely her frustration with encountering yet another just like him.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

So are disagreeing or agreeing idk

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 8w

Damn you got real quiet. You got that dog in you for sure and it is a whole ass bitch. Hit them heard with that chihuahah scary bark routine and ran off like a little bitch lolllll im in boston rn wassup bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

You’re arguing blindly 🤦🏽‍♂️ if it’s happening more than once than your at fault for continuing the same pattern yes the guys is 100% at fault for being a prick but still you’re going to them over and over and over and over again knowing what’s to come this issue should be addressed on both ends it’s not just a woman thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #67 8w

Yeah i agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

Except she made no indication that she was talking to this guy who made his intentions clear, she only expressed frustration that it was his only intentions, and that many men like him feel the same way.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

The topic isn’t about the amount of guys like and decreasing this it’s about being tired of talking to guys who can’t hold a conversation and just want sex know what you’re arguing about because the points you are now making are irrelevant

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

If she’s tired of it that means she’s had multiple encounters which has been the back up to what I’ve been saying just stfu

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

Okay if she wasn’t talking to this guy now she has talked to guys like that before hence her frustration

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

No one’s going to them. If you can tell that a guy wants sex by not even speaking them then yes it’s their fault. You’ve got to actually speak to these people to know that. She’s not seeking out guys like this, the issue is that majority of men are like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

Yeah, she’s had multiple encounters with people LIKE HIM, which WOULD NOT be her fault because they are EVERYWHERE! Maybe she can reduce those encounters through some tricks, sure, but if you’re a girl looking for romance you’re going to bump into guys like this no matter how careful you are

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

I will say again The post said guys who cannot hold a conversation and just want sex if they cannot hold a conversation that shows lack of interest so right then and there why waste your time continuing and usually if the guy is showing lack of interest like that then his motives are already known

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 8w

See, no one gives a fuck about the French enough to even know they’re called frogs? It’s weird that you saw frogs and thought of the French like ☠️

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

Why are you even responding 1hr later

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

Yeah…she’s talked to guys like this before..so why is this her fault? Why is it her fault for just *encountering* or conversing with guys like this? Because she didn’t pick up on the red flags soon enough? Even the ones who aren’t slick, almost anyone in her demographic will have had to deal with a guy like that by now

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

Aren’t you..also responding..1 hour later? It takes two to tango Timmy😏

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

Because I was already in the chat when you responded and it took me to your weak ah response

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

So you never left? For a guy mad at me responding, you sure are spending a lot of time here in this sub..

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

No I left but the sub is blowing up 🤦🏽‍♂️ ofc I’m gonna see it you sound dumb

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

I think you guys should talk in dms. Looks like chemistry right here

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

Maybe that was my whole goal

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

Maybe…it was mine too😳

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

See no beef just a heated debate

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

this episode of how i met your mother is gonna be crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

Oh it’s hot alright 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

But you came back🥺, even though you left the sub, you always came back to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

🤣🤣 lmaoo

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

Bro never left. He was waiting for you<3

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

Shhhh don’t give away all my secrets

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

Oh baby, 😍 it’s ok, we don’t have to keep anything from each other anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #69 8w

I was clearly responding to #23 explaining the joke that #5 made like ☠️

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Anonymous replying to -> #72 8w

Women aren’t entertaining here to entertain you. Sounds selfish

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Anonymous replying to -> #72 8w

what this gotta do with dudes not wanting anything other than sex ? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 8w

you honestly sound stupid asF

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Anonymous replying to -> #73 8w

Incel

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Anonymous replying to -> #73 8w

Weak. Get your life together.

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Anonymous replying to -> #73 8w

Pathetic! Don’t blame others for how inadequate you are!

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

Oh no my feelings

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 8w

holy performative

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Anonymous replying to -> #74 8w

🧢

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Anonymous replying to -> #72 8w

every guy ik including myself has ever wanted to only fuck uninteresting mildly attractive women, when they're pretty and they're actually likable to be around you wanna take them out on dates and wanna buy them flowers so if that doesn't happen to you just know that you're the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 8w

Nah, my ass is sore for the entire next day

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Anonymous replying to -> #75 8w

😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

How old are you to be having 40 bodies

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

One of my good friends are 21 and has 76 bodies I mean he’s hot af so that’s why but a lot of people just sleep around

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Anonymous replying to -> #58 8w

That’s so sad

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

Having sex isn’t sad grow up.

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

Ik I try to talk to him but he does all this stuff bc of his mom and I’m like dude live your life don’t try to piss your mom off bc he’s hurting himself

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Anonymous replying to -> #69 8w

Having to much sex is sad I mean I like my men I have my fair share but to a point it is sad

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Anonymous replying to -> #58 8w

Yeah there’s no connection anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #42 8w

all the men mad under this is so funny

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Anonymous replying to -> #57 8w

Exactly my point I have my sneaky link when I want something I go to him

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Anonymous replying to -> #58 8w

Oh nah I don’t I just pull up Twitter and go to town all by myself

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 7w

I was in your hood and they didnt know you.

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Anonymous replying to -> basedl 2w

You were a no show pussy boy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5d

Lmaooo

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