Bruh tbh I can't go out to eat anymore bc all I can think about is how overworked and miserable the whole staff probably is 😭 and I feel AWFUL making them work for me, then I have to egregiously overtip. So I leave guilty, broke, and stressed.
I feel the same way, so I try to avoid it too. Way too much guilt
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Anonymous1d
Basically, I just feel like I'm at work 😭 going out is not pleasant at all anymore
I feel like I am the server of bartender or barback
I am them
Just more stress 😭
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Anonymous1d
Lowkey i love my job as a cashier at my little deli i love being like patrick when hes like "may i take your hat sir"
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Anonymous#11d
Im just saying this because not everyone is miserable despite the sentiment online :)
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Anonymous#11d
Oh I mean like restaurants
Like bar/restaurants, gastropubs, etc
Cute calm lil delis and stuff are different
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AnonymousOP1d
I'm talking irl sentiments 😭 once you know what goes on behind the scenes at most restaurants, they're ruined for you
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AnonymousOP1d
Oh i do not work at a calm deli i get like 400+ customers a day and am the only one on register. I have worked at like full dine in restaurants too and the feeling was the same there too. I like making ppl happy and that fills my cup :)