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im scared i wont be able to find or keep a long term partner cuz of my fear of penetrative sex. i dont think ill ever want to do it because of how painful its always been for me. i have a medical condition that makes it extremely painful :(
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Anonymous 16w

You could always end up with someone who’s asexual

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Anonymous 16w

What’s the condition

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Anonymous 16w

I have vaginismus too. I’ve had these same worries before and it’s prob way more common than people realize. I will say mine has gotten a lot better with practice, lots of lube, foreplay, and an understanding partner. I haven’t tried it but apparently pelvic floor therapy can really help with this too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

PCOS maybe?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

thats like a 1 in 10000000 chance

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

vaginismus

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16w

Ive been doing pelvic floor therapy but I still get extremely sore and my muscles ache so bad after doing anything down there 😭 its an ongoing thing so it might get better later but its very slow progress

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