Yeah but if you look google enough and fuck good enough, there is a large extent that personality matters a lot less. Not trynna advocate for being a piece of shit mind you, but I have been told more than once that there were periods where a long term gf said she only stayed because I’m hot and hung (at the time I felt good about myself but later actually felt bad because being a good person is important to me tbh)
Clearly, men are much more accepting of the reality that a lot of humans are more shallow than we like to think. I mean, yes many people can’t tolerate bad personality. I know I can’t at all. But if you’re seriously trying to suggest that it’s rare for people to put up with stuff they really shouldn’t because they brush it off over how attractive their partner is, that’s honestly kinda naive.