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Personality really does matter. I found a very hot, very tall, very muscular finance bro at the bar that I honestly was planning on fucking but then he just said something kinda rude that wasn't that deep but I did not like it so I got up and left. Crazy
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Anonymous 6w

My friends don’t believe me but personality will immediately make a physical 10 go to a 0 in a split second, or vice versa. I find myself being attracted to the goofiest looking people sometimes because their personality is so amazing

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Anonymous 6w

You say "finance bro" like it's a positive trait 😭

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Anonymous 6w

No seriously. Anyone rude is like a MASSIVE turn off. Even if I’m actively in a relationship and my partner is really rude to someone (undeservingly) I loose any feelings. At any point in life whether a friendship, hook up, partner, etc. if they are rude to people I’m just out.

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Anonymous 6w

Real af. You could be fine as hell, only to then spout dickheaded vitriol and instantly become an easy -1/10.

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Anonymous 6w

Yeah but if you look google enough and fuck good enough, there is a large extent that personality matters a lot less. Not trynna advocate for being a piece of shit mind you, but I have been told more than once that there were periods where a long term gf said she only stayed because I’m hot and hung (at the time I felt good about myself but later actually felt bad because being a good person is important to me tbh)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Well to me it is a positive trait lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

I don't care

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Well you’re a big meanie 😢

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Clearly, men are much more accepting of the reality that a lot of humans are more shallow than we like to think. I mean, yes many people can’t tolerate bad personality. I know I can’t at all. But if you’re seriously trying to suggest that it’s rare for people to put up with stuff they really shouldn’t because they brush it off over how attractive their partner is, that’s honestly kinda naive.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

There's only one person typing paragraphs and it's not me lol I'm not suggesting anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Cope how you need I guess

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Dude op just said “I don’t care” not “it’s super rare for anyone to operate like that”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Exactly. He could be the most gorgeous man I’ve ever seen if he says one rude or cocky thing he’s immediately unattractive

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