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Confession: sometimes I feel like I struggle with my identity. I feel like I could maybe be non binary but I also feel very proud of my womanhood. But being called a man feels sorta euphoric in a way. I think it’s because societally men are considered-1
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Anonymous 1d

welcome to the nonbinary dimension! we have snacks

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Anonymous 1d

I understand wanting a label but humans are fluid and sometimes just expressing ourselves in how we feel in the moment is better than putting yourself in a box. You don’t need everything figured out, you can just be you. Good luck though!!

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Anonymous 1d

Toxic social masculinity

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Anonymous 1d

Stronger and more charismatic or something. But it also kinda irks me when I’m being called it as an insult. Idk. Maybe it’s nice because I’m so comfortable in my womanhood that someone trying to challenge it just makes me laugh ? Idk. I’m just trying to get out my mental vomit

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Right that’s also how I feel ! Like why tf does it even matter !!! I think I just feel a pressure because the way I look people automatically assume I’m a lesbian (?) or sometimes even a trans woman (????) when I’m a cis straight woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

But I’m not even sure I need to be there 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

But they have snacks 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

you can just be nonbinary until proven otherwise like a holding pattern while you figure shit out

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

What does this even mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yeah… idk ! I also just feel like I wouldn’t fit with the community ! I’m also just concerned about how my boyfriend would take it.

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