like your kids didn't ask to be here so to force them to be here then expect or feel so entitled to think that they're obligated to spend money on you and do whatever you say they should do because you spend money on them isn't parenting. it's control and dehumanization under the guise of parenting.
your kids don’t owe you shit but to give themselves a good life from what you’ve given them. just because you chose active parenting over child support, prison, deadbeat allegations, or having an unwanted child chase you around the world because you didn’t want them from birth, doesn’t automatically mean you did good😭
don’t get me wrong, if you have parents where you wanna give back and make sure theyre good is a good and kind thing but as a parent, you don’t need to be coming out your mouth acting like you’re entitled to the money your child grew up and chose to earn and work hard for they could’ve sat on their ass, don’t work, and not do a thing😭