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I feel like men want traditional wives which I would happily be, the problem is they don't wanna be traditional husbands

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Anonymous 6d

That part

Anonymous 6d

Fr like my thing is the point of freedom is the right to chose how you wanna live. I’d never judge a woman who whats to be traditional and a house wife or a man that wants to be traditional and a provider ..but I hate a man that EXPECTS a traditional wife and her doing provider shit THEN barely carries his own weight. That don’t work

Anonymous 6d

so real

Anonymous 6d

Idk i’d consider myself traditional husband material, but I guess everyone has their own definition of that // different expectations in what they’re looking for in a partner

Anonymous 5d

Umm actually it’s the opposite haha women want traditional men but don’t want to be traditional women

Anonymous 6d

I would provide if we could afford it in this economy 😴 maybe one day

Anonymous 6d

As a man. Nah. I want an equal tbf

Anonymous 6d

The idea of a stay at home wife is becoming less and less of a common thing because of the economy these past 10 years. I’d love to have my woman be the home carer, but unless I’m rich as hell, that ain’t happening unfortunately. Times are a changing

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Anonymous 6d

Wait so yall want men who massage yall feet at night, listen to you when you talk like your voice is music, looks at you like you’re the only woman in the whole universe? Reveres an adores you, cooks for you, cleans for you, listens with intent to improve instead of ego, and only ever has eyes for you even if it means he sluts you out hard in private?

Anonymous 6d

Traditional just doesn’t mean a woman who doesn’t work. It also refers to religious, submissive, one who cooks, cleans, has multiple babies etc. i’m not saying I want one, but I just wanna give you the context of what people mean when they say “traditional wife”

Anonymous 6d

Definetly the other way around

Anonymous 6d

PREACH! It's a two-way street

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Anonymous 5d

A man provides a women takes care of the house

Anonymous 5d

a traditional husband is supposed to control you, why would you want that? women werent even allowed to have their own bank accounts until 1974. is that what you wanna go back to?

Anonymous 5d

You want traditional? Go make me a sandwich.

Anonymous 6d

Well what’s a traditional husband to you?

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Anonymous 6d

Maybe they don’t want used goods

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Anonymous

#1 6d

Fr it's like they like they get surprised when I'd expect them to be traditional too

Anonymous

#2 6d

Protector and provider

Anonymous

OP 6d

Gee I wonder why they don’t want to do that for you

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Anonymous

#4 6d

Well don't expect a traditional wife if you can't be a traditional husband

Anonymous

OP 6d

It’s amazing how regarded some of you are so confidently so consistently

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Anonymous

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Anonymous

#4 6d

Bro made up a whole scenario in his head to get mad at 💀

Anonymous

#6 6d

I think so lol

Anonymous

#6 6d

90% of the internet nowadays fukwrongwitem😂

Anonymous

OP 6d

What does that mean to you practically though? Well paying job?

Anonymous

#7 6d

Well yes especially in this economy lol

Anonymous

prins 6d

Da fuq

Anonymous 6d

Are you a traditionally good woman? Virgin? Religious? Submissive? If not, don’t try to subscribe to patriarchy.

Anonymous

prins 6d

Yeah, real talk, as a guy I’ve never understand this mindset. Like, why would I care if she’s been with one or multiple guys before; I’m going to fuck her better anyways

Anonymous

#7 6d

If because he’s scared he won’t measure up to her past lovers. Virgins have no basis to compare sex to, combined with submissiveness makes it easier for him to control the narrative that he’s the best she’ll ever have because he’s the only one she’ll have until she realizes that she can do better.

Anonymous

#12 6d

Where in the post did it say all of that

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Anonymous

#1 6d

Idk I just made it up

Anonymous

#12 6d

Can you all stfu it was a joke lmao

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Anonymous

prins 6d

I’m gonna touch you

Anonymous

#14 6d

Traditional (in the usual reference to the 50s standard) means she won’t work. If she works and ends up taking care of the household (domestic labor, which is also work), she’s better off just being single (or single mother) because she’ll do that regardless. The point of being a traditional housewife is that she does the domestic duties and child rearing while her husband is the bread winner.

Anonymous

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Anonymous

#13 6d

Correct. But that’s not the only criteria as I wrote above (non-working+more)

Anonymous

prins 6d

As a virgin myself, I certainly don't want a man who fetishizes my virginity, and compares women who have been with other men as "used goods". Im a human being not an item

Anonymous

OP 6d

That part. If a man openly fetishized my virginity and talked down on other woman for being “used goods” I literally wouldn’t even bother with him. Cuz they probably ran through themselves anyway and see woman as flesh object like a creep

Anonymous

#17 6d

Well put, I feel like a lot of guys are like oh you're a gold digger when you say you want a traditional husband, but they love what I say I'd do as a traditional wife.

Anonymous

#17 6d

He calls himself a rage baiter but he’s still willing to spread misogyny regardless of whether he’s sincere. It’s like pooping your pants and saying “LOL it’s just a prank bro”

Anonymous

OP 6d

As it should be bro, I agree with you

Anonymous

#6 6d

lol that’s true

Anonymous

#4 6d

😭😭😭 You don't even know her

Anonymous

prins 6d

Lowkey wish you would ragebait without fueling misogyny on here. The humor kind of feels like a Trojan horse for real beliefs. If not for you, then for others on here. And it’s low-hanging fruit anyway. I know you can be more creative than that

Anonymous

OP 6d

I guess is there anything else to it then?

Anonymous

12442 5d

The missing comma on this one really leads to some hilarious meanings

Anonymous

#7 5d

A women

Anonymous

#6 5d

A man provides a woman, takes care of the house. Lowkey just picturing a man birthing a woman then going straight into the house work.

Anonymous

#21 5d

Here bro just for you

Anonymous

#6 5d

How lovely!

Anonymous

#22 5d

also, a household where the husband “provides” and the wife dosnt have a job is not at all practical in todays economy.

Anonymous

OP 5d

Most men are already protectors and providers tho?

Anonymous

#22 5d

For starters, a traditional husband that isn't ~toxic~ wouldn't try to control you and be toxic. Also, it is possible in today's economy it just isn't common. I know men with well paying jobs that have no problem with their wives being traditional.