Confessions on Yik Yak | If (hypothetical) you and I wanted to play around and I said, “I’d love to hook up with you but you’re my type of guy and I know I’ll get too attached,” how and what do you think you’d feel? Or, how does that come off?

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If (hypothetical) you and I wanted to play around and I said, “I’d love to hook up with you but you’re my type of guy and I know I’ll get too attached,” how and what do you think you’d feel? Or, how does that come off?

Anonymous 1d

It comes off like you’re trying to use sex to create a relationship by working backwards. Kinda manipulative. If he does it and you get attached then this makes it his fault instead of yours for engaging in things you can’t handle.

Anonymous 1d

someone has said this to me before so we just went for it and she became my girlfriend like the sex was too good and she was so nice

Anonymous

#1 1d

How am I using sex to create a relationship when I think it’s pretty clear in my post that we have not had sex? I think I’m actually doing the opposite. I’m realizing that this is a situation that I should not engage in because I can’t handle the feeling I would probably feel if we did hook up, so I’m clearing the air so that it’s not either‘s fault.

Anonymous

OP 1d

You are saying you want to hook up with this person right? Which would suggest you want to have sex or sexual activity while knowing that you would get attached. If you weren’t trying to engage you wouldn’t tell this person that or hook up with them at all. If you know it’s dumb and do it then you’re dumb and it’s your fault if they don’t want you.