Confessions on Yik Yak | i think the worst “compliment” ive ever received from a guy was, “yk i’ve never rlly found black women attractive until i met you. you changed my perspective.” sir pls get off my phone 🥀

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i think the worst “compliment” ive ever received from a guy was, “yk i’ve never rlly found black women attractive until i met you. you changed my perspective.” sir pls get off my phone 🥀

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Anonymous 12w

Should’ve hit em with the “yeah well I thought I liked men until I met you”

Anonymous 12w

it’s either a fetish or they hate u… like in the big 2025 chilee pls 🫩

Anonymous 12w

Literally ew

Anonymous 12w

That’s wild af. I’ve always found all races attractive, but like man if you like a woman never ever ever say that 🤦🏻‍♂️

Anonymous 12w

Justice for my black queens🤎

Anonymous 12w

They really think they’re doing something when they make that statement 🙄🙄🙄

Anonymous 12w

People will say something racist then slightly backtrack it by sort of disassociating you from the rest of your race and will call that a compliment😭

Anonymous 12w

why can’t mfs just call a girl pretty and go about their day normally

Anonymous 12w

Genuinely gave me the ick

Anonymous 12w

guys this is a place to rant, let’s keep the chat racism free, thanks!

Anonymous 12w

same thing happened to me last yr i replied back oh interesting

Anonymous 12w

That’s so weird

Anonymous 12w

Shit like this is why I always wonder how other dudes are really just out there behaving like that and thinking it's okay

Anonymous 12w

Ewwwwwww

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Anonymous 12w

I heard similar as an Indian woman soo many times like oh my god wtf! Ohh I never thought I would be talking to a Indian girl.. like okayy…. Smh! Men huh

Anonymous 12w

Gross

Anonymous 12w

Eughhh

Anonymous 12w

valid compliment

Anonymous 12w

Ion even see the problem tbh. What if bro had bad experiences until he met you ?

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Anonymous 12w

i’d give him the benefit of the doubt because he could just be ignorant

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Anonymous 12w

should he have said that? probably not, but bruh there’s over 8 billion people in the world, god forbid a guy only finds some people of a particular race attractive

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Anonymous 12w

i think some of yall may be taking this the wrong way. im someone who doesnt date white guys because i just dont find them attractive, yes there are handsome white guys but i just dont see them as attractive to me. Maybe thats just what he means.

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Anonymous 12w

A majority of you here are quite ignorant. The man had a preference, and he’s preference was altered due to him actually experiencing life. Y’all moving like you instantly knew what did or do not like. He was never exposed to African American women hence he never saw them that way but because he lived life and experienced something new. He has come to a realization that he find African American woman attractive. And instead of welcoming him you took it as am offense… how selfish of you.

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Anonymous 12w

If it ain’t white it ain’t right. #whitesonly

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Anonymous

#1 12w

like that’s not the compliment u think it isn't

Anonymous

OP 12w

is *

Anonymous

#3 12w

honestly though

Anonymous

#5 12w

no literally. why can’t we js be treated normally by everyone

Anonymous

#4 12w

like boy gtfo my phone pls

Anonymous

#7 12w

it’s backhanded. you’re basically saying to me you found every single black woman ugly or unattractive even though u haven’t even met every single black woman. then u meet me and suddenly im the exception. i hope that made sense. it’s not a compliment tho

Anonymous

#7 12w

it’s like saying, “oh wow you’re one of the rare ones!” or “one of the good ones” when they’re generalizing all black ppl.

Anonymous

#8 12w

1/10 ragebait get out

Anonymous

OP 12w

Fair

Anonymous

#10 12w

i didn’t get upset w him or call him out bc i did consider this possibility. however i didn’t let him think it was ok to say again. i simply said, “interesting!”

Anonymous

OP 12w

this!! bc why did a guy say to me he didn’t really fw snow bunnies like that cus he’s looking for smth more exotic 💀

Anonymous

#5 12w

like huh.

Anonymous

OP 12w

i love this and the fact that you’re emotionally mature enough to consider that. i think you should have a conversation with him to see where his head is at

Anonymous

#10 12w

yeah i definitely will if he ever makes another weird comment like that again haha but for the time being i think ima js keep reminding him to stop trying to flirt w me in general since we’re js friends 😅

Anonymous

OP 12w

if you have to keep reminding him then i don’t think you guys should even be friends and i also just realized that you didn’t really ask me for my input so ill stop now

Anonymous

#10 12w

bahaha it’s all good you’re probably right

Anonymous

OP 12w

LMFFMAOOOO

Anonymous

#16 12w

i don’t care who he finds attractive and who he doesn’t. if u don’t find black women attractive that’s fine, but why do u feel the need to go and tell them that. js live ur life and pursue the girls u want

Anonymous

OP 12w

sometimes i am sometimes im not either way thanks for you time lmao

Anonymous

#15 12w

BAHAHAH facts like, “oh yk i don’t rlly care for ur kind but ur one of the good ones!!” like gee thanks 🫩😂

Anonymous

#16 12w

Legit he could’ve said “wow you’re so pretty” like it’s so much easier and faster to just say someone is pretty without taking the extra time thought and energy to bring race into it

Anonymous

#15 12w

oh absolutely

Anonymous

#20 12w

so many of you r totally misinterpreting and derailing from my point. kinda tired explaining over and over again, so feel free to dm me if u disagree or would like to express your argument!

Anonymous

#8 12w

Anonymous

#22 12w

it’s just a matter of them not knowing, i think. if no one is around to teach u or help u understand, then you’re not gonna know what things are socially acceptable and what’s not. that’s why im here to teach and or argue with those that disagree w my post :)

Anonymous

OP 12w

Absolutely agree that they don't know better, but I also think the issue is that a lot of people who act like that don't want to be better/more considerate

Anonymous

#20 12w

The problem wasn't his experience, it was how he talked to her lmao

Anonymous

#22 12w

oh fs fs

Anonymous

#25 12w

that’s usually not what they mean though. they bring up being loud and ghetto

Anonymous

#18 12w

yeah i get that, black guys that i’ve talked to tho that don’t like black women have also said the same thing. maybe that’s just not their preference.

Anonymous

#18 12w

like some black guys don’t like white women because they’re “spoiled white girls” even if they’re not. that’s just their take on things and their stereotype. for all they care they can miss out on an amazing woman regardless of her skin tone.

Anonymous

#28 12w

sigh

Anonymous

#28 12w

i think all indian women r drop dead gorgeous

Anonymous

#29 12w

it’s js not but ok lmfao

Anonymous

#29 12w

In what world

Anonymous

#1 12w

who said that fr

Anonymous

#34 12w

every race has good lookin people, and every race has not so good lookin people, that’s just the way it is idk why someone would say some dumb shit like that fr

Anonymous

#31 12w

Fr it just fetishizes people and enforces racist beauty standards. I’ve met a ton of people who genuinely thought they were ugly because everyone’s socialized to view being blonde with blue eyes as the standard

Anonymous

#34 12w

I wouldn’t say everyone is