Anonymous #1 6w

like that’s not the compliment u think it isn't

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Anonymous OP 6w

is *

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Anonymous #2 6w

💗💗 💗

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Anonymous #3 6w

honestly though

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Anonymous #5 6w

no literally. why can’t we js be treated normally by everyone

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Anonymous #4 6w

like boy gtfo my phone pls

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Anonymous #7 6w

it’s backhanded. you’re basically saying to me you found every single black woman ugly or unattractive even though u haven’t even met every single black woman. then u meet me and suddenly im the exception. i hope that made sense. it’s not a compliment tho

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Anonymous #7 6w

it’s like saying, “oh wow you’re one of the rare ones!” or “one of the good ones” when they’re generalizing all black ppl.

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Anonymous #8 6w

1/10 ragebait get out

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Anonymous OP 6w

Fair

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Anonymous #10 6w

i didn’t get upset w him or call him out bc i did consider this possibility. however i didn’t let him think it was ok to say again. i simply said, “interesting!”

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Anonymous OP 6w

this!! bc why did a guy say to me he didn’t really fw snow bunnies like that cus he’s looking for smth more exotic 💀

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Anonymous #5 6w

like huh.

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Anonymous OP 6w

i love this and the fact that you’re emotionally mature enough to consider that. i think you should have a conversation with him to see where his head is at

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Anonymous #10 6w

yeah i definitely will if he ever makes another weird comment like that again haha but for the time being i think ima js keep reminding him to stop trying to flirt w me in general since we’re js friends 😅

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Anonymous OP 6w

if you have to keep reminding him then i don’t think you guys should even be friends and i also just realized that you didn’t really ask me for my input so ill stop now

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Anonymous #10 6w

bahaha it’s all good you’re probably right

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Anonymous OP 6w

LMFFMAOOOO

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Anonymous #16 6w

i don’t care who he finds attractive and who he doesn’t. if u don’t find black women attractive that’s fine, but why do u feel the need to go and tell them that. js live ur life and pursue the girls u want

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Anonymous OP 6w

sometimes i am sometimes im not either way thanks for you time lmao

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Anonymous #15 6w

BAHAHAH facts like, “oh yk i don’t rlly care for ur kind but ur one of the good ones!!” like gee thanks 🫩😂

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no need to be a hater 🙂‍↕️ we’re all js humans at the end of the day

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Anonymous #16 6w

Legit he could’ve said “wow you’re so pretty” like it’s so much easier and faster to just say someone is pretty without taking the extra time thought and energy to bring race into it

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don’t even get them the time of day or your energy. as long as black women believe we’re beautiful, then that’s all that truly matters. let those who wanna hate, hate 💗

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Anonymous OP 6w

give *

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Anonymous OP 6w

Sounded worse than what I meant, I think black women are very attractive, but not particularly the prettiest humans on earth. Beauty isn’t a race, if you’re good looking you’re good looking

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Anonymous #14 6w

right. i believe that no one is superior over the other in terms of beauty. but i wasn’t gonna bother correcting that person when they were just making a sweet comment.

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Anonymous OP 6w

you’re right twin.

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Anonymous #15 6w

oh absolutely

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i’m going to give you the benefit of the doubt and let you know the way you worded this sounded like you’re fetishizing black women

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Anonymous #14 6w

input wasn’t needed as they said in their own opinion so you’re just digging a bigger hole for yourself twin

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Anonymous #2 6w

thank you!

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Anonymous OP 6w

Oh I don’t know - I think it’s doesn’t necessarily have to be mean to point out something like that! We can both appreciate someone for a compliment and let them know that we’re not cool with having to put others down to lift us up, y’know? Although I’m always grateful for a compliment, it does make me sad when folks have to imply that any lady is ‘less pretty’ to do it. But I can also overly sensitive sometimes. And I bet you’re positively gorgeous, OP. 😭❤️

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Anonymous #19 6w

awwww!! yes totally, i think we should uplift each other without putting others down 💗💗 and thank you so much, beautiful/handsome 💗💗

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Anonymous #20 6w

so many of you r totally misinterpreting and derailing from my point. kinda tired explaining over and over again, so feel free to dm me if u disagree or would like to express your argument!

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Anonymous #22 6w

it’s just a matter of them not knowing, i think. if no one is around to teach u or help u understand, then you’re not gonna know what things are socially acceptable and what’s not. that’s why im here to teach and or argue with those that disagree w my post :)

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Anonymous OP 6w

Absolutely agree that they don't know better, but I also think the issue is that a lot of people who act like that don't want to be better/more considerate

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Anonymous #20 6w

The problem wasn't his experience, it was how he talked to her lmao

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Anonymous #22 6w

oh fs fs

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Anonymous #10 6w

How is it fetishizing women when you have a preference over other appearances… also #14 may have slightly been provocative but there’s no need to say “black ppl r the prettiest things on earth” as opposed to “black ppl r beautiful too” like empowerment to equality is good but empowerment to superiority is not necessary at all lmao

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Anonymous #24 6w

You can have preferences without fetishizing an entire group of people

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Anonymous #25 6w

that’s usually not what they mean though. they bring up being loud and ghetto

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Anonymous #18 6w

yeah i get that, black guys that i’ve talked to tho that don’t like black women have also said the same thing. maybe that’s just not their preference.

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Anonymous #18 6w

like some black guys don’t like white women because they’re “spoiled white girls” even if they’re not. that’s just their take on things and their stereotype. for all they care they can miss out on an amazing woman regardless of her skin tone.

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Anonymous #28 6w

sigh

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Anonymous #28 6w

i think all indian women r drop dead gorgeous

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Anonymous #2 6w

Have u ever seen a black woman??

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Anonymous #30 6w

i’m js gonna stop u right there bc idk where u think ur going w this

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Anonymous #29 6w

it’s js not but ok lmfao

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Anonymous #29 6w

In what world

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Anonymous #1 6w

who said that fr

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Anonymous #2 6w

We’re not on the same earth

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Anonymous #2 6w

Women just be beautiful fr. Men too

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Anonymous #34 6w

every race has good lookin people, and every race has not so good lookin people, that’s just the way it is idk why someone would say some dumb shit like that fr

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Anonymous #31 6w

Fr it just fetishizes people and enforces racist beauty standards. I’ve met a ton of people who genuinely thought they were ugly because everyone’s socialized to view being blonde with blue eyes as the standard

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Anonymous #34 6w

I wouldn’t say everyone is

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