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my toxic trait is i drop a man as soon as they do something that makes me think they don’t like me anymore
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Anonymous 4w

Not toxic at all!

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Anonymous 4w

This is called self destructive behavior and you should really talk to a therapist about why you do this

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

sometimes i feel like i drop them too easily and maybe i should put in more effort to work it out. but at the same time its just a talking stage and i dont wanna waste time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Don’t feel bad. Men don’t put up with half the shit women do in relationships, and if we acted like them, they wouldn’t stick around like women do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Men 100% know what they’re doing. They don’t deserve us waiting around and microanalyzing weird behavior. We as women need to drop them at the 1st red flag!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

it’s confusing. idk if i’m ending it because im scared of getting hurt or if it’s actually because i don’t like their behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Bit of both. Work on thinking about why those behaviors make you feel the way you do to the point to feel the need to “run away” or leave bc of the perceived threat of abandonment from them. Parents/grandparents/important figures in your life had poor marriages? You weren’t treated the best by these figures? Too much soap opera watching made you feel this one thing would turn into a drama storm? Did it once with a bad hs bf and now it’s just a self fulfilling prophecy?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Red flag ^^

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