Confessions on Yik Yak | my toxic trait is i drop a man as soon as they do something that makes me think they don’t like me anymore

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Confessions 11w

my toxic trait is i drop a man as soon as they do something that makes me think they don’t like me anymore

Anonymous 11w

Not toxic at all!

Anonymous 11w

This is called self destructive behavior and you should really talk to a therapist about why you do this

Anonymous

#1 11w

sometimes i feel like i drop them too easily and maybe i should put in more effort to work it out. but at the same time its just a talking stage and i dont wanna waste time

Anonymous

OP 11w

Don’t feel bad. Men don’t put up with half the shit women do in relationships, and if we acted like them, they wouldn’t stick around like women do.

Anonymous

#1 11w

Men 100% know what they’re doing. They don’t deserve us waiting around and microanalyzing weird behavior. We as women need to drop them at the 1st red flag!

Anonymous

#2 11w

it’s confusing. idk if i’m ending it because im scared of getting hurt or if it’s actually because i don’t like their behavior

Anonymous

OP 11w

Bit of both. Work on thinking about why those behaviors make you feel the way you do to the point to feel the need to “run away” or leave bc of the perceived threat of abandonment from them. Parents/grandparents/important figures in your life had poor marriages? You weren’t treated the best by these figures? Too much soap opera watching made you feel this one thing would turn into a drama storm? Did it once with a bad hs bf and now it’s just a self fulfilling prophecy?

Anonymous

#1 11w

Red flag ^^

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