Anonymous #1 5d

Well I never loved him lol but I don't like when people do this in general. Like I could be talking shit about anybody and if you call them X insult that I don't think is true to them, I am gonna be like "well no" it's just more annoying when it's an ex because people read into it the way you just responded

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Anonymous OP 5d

But like he’s your ex and you’re bashing him so what does it matter if it’s true or not? He’s an ex! You could also just not defend him if it’s so much effort

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Anonymous #1 5d

I'm not bashing anyone, I'm recounting events that actually happened and characterizing them according because I am an ethical shit talker! It matters that it's true because there are enough things to say about him that are actually true that you don't need to be making things up that make me look bad in proximity for even dating him in the first place lol redeeming qualities don't just go away because you broke up

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Anonymous OP 5d

But it literally doesn’t matter. It seems like you’re caring way to much about a person you aren’t even with

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Anonymous #1 5d

Again I think you're missing the part where I said I do this even when discussing people I don't like in general. It's not about him specifically, it's the principle, and it does matter lol

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Anonymous OP 5d

Seems like a lot of energy to waste

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Anonymous #1 5d

It's not wasted energy to defend people against undue attacks whether you have a problem with them or not, I think that's basic decency

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Anonymous OP 5d

Online? It’s a waste of time

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Anonymous #1 5d

I'm not defending them online lol

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Anonymous OP 5d

You’re defending this ex online

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Anonymous #1 5d

I'm defending myself online lol I haven't defended him at all, you haven't said anything about him

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Anonymous OP 5d

So you’re defending yourself by correcting other people about what they said about an ex you are no longer dating? The mental gymnastics are insane haha

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Anonymous #1 5d

Nobody online has said anything about my ex, what are you talking about

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Anonymous OP 5d

I’m taking about what you first posted about

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Anonymous #1 5d

I wasn't defending him online lol I was just sharing a thought on the Real Life circumstance that has been taking place recently

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