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maybe hot take but if you’re not willing to have a kid with a majorly debilitating disability you should not have any kids at all.
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Anonymous 3w

can we all report that original post for discrimination so that autistic people don’t have to keep being exposed to this hateful shit

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Anonymous 3w

That’s what everyone says till their kids is 30 years old and still pooping himself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

That’s pretty much the risk you take when you decide not to abort

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

In rare instances lmao, fuck abortion

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

what does this even mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

if you have a kid who’s 30 and pooping themself due to disability, i’m not saying that’s not hard for everyone involved. i’m just saying i don’t think you have a right to abandon them because you already agreed to the possibility of being responsible for them at that caliber by deciding to have a kid in the first place

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

People underestimate the effort and rigidity it takes to support a literal grown child for the rest of their lives and, second person bringing up abortion was just stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i agree and i think those people should not have kids

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Anonymous 3w

i’m just saying that i don’t think you should have children bc you’re not up to it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Not up to taking care of a child the rest of my life? No, I’d expect them to bein their own by 25, then it’s minor help from there on, not taking care of a baby forever and that’s not a crazy take

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

So you’re taking the moral high ground on abortion but you’re willing to abandon your family and disabled child

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

it’s not a crazy take to not want to take care of your kid for the rest of your life. personally i think that sounds horrible. therefore im not having children. bc im not willing to take the risk (amongst other reasons). if youre not willing to take the risk that you might get put in that situation. i wholeheartedly believe you are someone who should not have children.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

a disabled adult is not a baby, jesus christ. if you intend to reproduce then it’s really damning for you to have an age cutoff in mind in terms of how long you’d be willing to provide for them regardless of their circumstances. that type of thinking is part of why homelessness is such a dire issue in the US

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Anonymous 3w

doesn’t matter what extent of debilitation you’re talking about, you don’t call a disabled adult a baby, because they aren’t one. that’s just about the most obvious form of infantilization imaginable

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

If it acts like one then it is, are we going to call them fully capable adults or really what they are. Humans who can’t take care of themselves at all and need assistance.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

dope, so now you’re also referring to disabled adults as “it”. please get your tubes tied

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

you don’t exactly sound like a fully capable adult yourself since you don’t seem to understand how age works. so what should we call you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Cry about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

rehearsing what you’re gonna say when your future adult offspring needs support, are we

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Anonymous 3w

do you think that you are someone who deserves to have kids? i’m just curious

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