Does it not hurt you inside to actually just sit down with your thoughts for a second and just say to yourself “i sold my body to strangers for 5 bucks”. Or are you really that hollow that it doesn’t bother you and you’ve convinced yourself that that is what it means to be a successful business woman. Which btw is completely disrespectful to the actual successful businesswomen in the world who worked their asses off
Yes it reflects very poorly on both of their characters. Men should not view women as objects to be passed around. And women should not proclaim to the internet that they wouldn’t care if their naked body is seen by randoms. But when a woman does do that, it is inevitable that creepy men are going to take it a certain way. And then she will cry and press charges when her nudes fall into the wrong persons hands and then all of a sudden it’s not “idc i look good”
I’m noticing a pattern here, this feels less like genuine concern for OPs safety and mental health and more like a case: “No respect for yourself or who your FATHER helped create” why focus on the Dad? I understand you worrying about parent’s embarrassment, but why single out the Dad? You make it out to be an issue of manhood and ego when in reality you are making a mockery of what it is to be a man..making them seem fragile and weak
Because statistically women who have poor relationships with their father tend to sleep around more. And apparently she has a great relationship with her dad, so either he doesn’t know, or he doesn’t care which would also explain why she is the way she is. Any normal PARENT hearing their daughter say they have sold pictures of their body to random people online should be absolutely concerned and heartbroken
Ok why not? Why not tho? Is this a religious thing? Men sell themselves for prostitution too. I understand if you take issue with how the industry treats its workers, but the actual business itself? It’s one thing to look for those who might be exploited, it’s another to lecture them on why they are so beneath you
I do not think she is beneath me. I would like to have children one day, and i would hope that if i have a daughter i can raise to believe that her body is a temple and that she should treat herself with utmost respect and only give herself to people who she believes will give her the same amount in return. No throwing her body online for cash. It is just truly sad for me to see so many woman be brainwashed into thinking this is “empowerment” or “freedom” it’s not it’s just sad
I truly respect you for discussing this with me honestly, but i think even you can tell by the way OP has completely checked out of the convo and is just responding with nonsense atp goes to show that she knows she has no respect, she just doesn’t have the strength to take accountability
I appreciate you continuing this conversation with Grace and patience too, thank you. I just personally believe that anyone, man or woman, deserves to be able to do WHATEVER they want with their body, regardless of whether not we (a third party) approves. I don’t think she needs to be held “accountable” for her lack of fear with her nudes being posted, I’d prefer to support her while this is happening, I think it’s kinda cool she’s taking it in stride! I know I’d be worried
not every woman needs to do that nasty shit to get money or attract men … i wouldn’t be bad at it cus id never disrespect myself like that . ur arguing with the wall tryna make onlyfans seem like a good way to get money . back then prostitution was the last resort now its ur first way out lol .
u might not have talked to anyone but u had to market urself naked on multiple social media platforms for anyone to see im sure which is so disgusting and disturbing . who in ur real life would want to see u naked or feel like ur special when anyone else can see for the low price of $5 🤣
I do agree that people are individuals and ultimately should have the right to make any decisions they want. But if i told you that one day her and her girlfriend would adopt a kid and then he eventually kills himself because of the viscous bullying that comes with your mother selling her body for 5 bucks, wouldn’t you maybe try to convince her that what she’s doing is wrong? I also wouldn’t want my future daughter constantly seeing women glorify the idea that their body is free to be looked at
What’s wrong with a little promiscuity tho? What if one day you just want to be a promiscuous girl/guy? We’re constantly told that having sex before marriage “brings down your value” well..isn’t this proof that it’s much the opposite? As long as the woman is of age, safe in her work environment, consenting and protected, who cares? The idea that either having more sex or less changes your value is disturbing to me
I’m not talking about kindergarten I’m talking about middle school and high school, where the most bullying and most adolescent suicide takes place. Even if her face isn’t showing, she’s openly confessing it to the internet and i think kids are smarter with the internet than you. Theres always a way
Also if we’re sticking on OP, she said that if it wouldn’t ruin her career, she would sell her body again and her and her gf loved it. So this specific case isn’t even about getting by, she just has literally no respect for herself and for some reason needs the attention and money of other people even though she has a gf that she “loves”
So you’re still very young. I’m not saying you won’t be an outlier and somehow manage to have a happy and stable life and relationship despite having money as your main priority, even over morals. But in general, people who grow old without ever having kids, sleeping with many different partners and/or selling their body, and feel the need to hide things from their loved ones because the know the reality of how bad it is, almost always end up dying sad and full of regret.
I’ve thought about it and I’m absolutely okay with people seeing my body for money. Modesty isn’t something I strongly value and I don’t feel it cheapened my worth as a person to do that. Just because you have different values doesn’t mean you have the “correct” value set and just because I disagree with you doesn’t mean I’m hollow inside.