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I don’t need to like a guy to go on a date with him. Sometimes I’m just hungry and want a nice dinner. If he’s offering to pay, why would I say no? Men call it being used, I call it being well fed. Nobody forced him to ask me out.
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Anonymous 17h

As a woman, this is such a shitty take. Don’t go on a date with someone if you’re not interested in getting to know them. They are earnestly asking you out, and you’re using them for food? This brand of women that thinks it’s funny to screw around with men for their own benefit just sets all of us back. Just breeds more sexism all around. Gross behavior

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Anonymous 18h

Ok so you’re scum? Got it

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Anonymous 17h

unless you’re upfront with ur intentions, it feels kinda wrong

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Anonymous 18h

No fr like why offer to pay if you don’t actually want to pay lmao. They can always do 50/50 if they want to save money

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Notice how the point of a date is to get to know someone and see if you want a relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

Yeah, if someone has a date with you and they’re not in love with you after you bought them food, thats totally okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

That’s cause it is haha

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

As a male I approve this comment 🖤

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

It not working out is completely different than going with no intention of even considering you

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

So go 50/50 on dates so you never have to risk being used for free stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

Literally. It’s the intention

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

Don’t lie to people by feigning interest for free food? That’s also hella easy

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

Well I don’t lmao. I only do 50/50 dates

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

Good for you! OP should follow suit

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