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Everyone talks abt “oooh I wanna fix them so bad” but no one talks abt what it’s like to actually fix them and then break up and watch the functioning healthy version of them go back to society
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Anonymous 10w

It’s funny the first girl I ever fall in love with. I fixed her and watched the healthy version of her return back to society. I’m really happy to see she’s thriving. We weren’t compatible in a relationship. I gave her what I could. Funny you posted that. I wish Lindsey and I stayed as friends. Just not possible too much emotion.

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Anonymous 10w

They don’t want to fix him. They want to manage him for their own needs. It’s never about fixing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Lots of us go through it bro. Next year she’ll graduate college sober, when I met her she wasn’t going to school and was addicted to pills and alc. Life is crazy man all u can do is wish em the best and keep going.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Funny you say it like that. I’ve got a step sister. I’ve worried about her for years. We did date. Sex didn’t happen. Too big of age gap. Her father is my step dad. Yeah ik no comment. He doesn’t allow me to talk to her. I’ve been praying to God for years—She’d meet a man that she could trust and would protect her from her father like I did all those years ago. Glad to hear she’s sober.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

That is true wish em the best and keep going

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