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This may be a hot take, but I think it’s a person’s respectability to have the balls to say no to things. I hear so many stories about how things happen that they didn’t want happening but they went along with it anyway. People need to grow backbones.
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Anonymous 3w

I also respect people who feel confident or principled enough to say no to things they aren’t comfortable with. But you don’t get people who struggle with that to start doing the same by just telling them they need to grow a backbone. It takes a lot of work to build up that self esteem and support to feel okay with any possible negative consequences or get out of your head. Building people up so they get to that point is just as important as shouting out the ones who are there.

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Anonymous 3w

It's a person's "respectability" to fart

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Anonymous 3w

yeah man, it’s perfectly chill for people to use pressure and manipulation to get what they want, obviously the real problem lies with the people who are spineless enough to get preyed on

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Anonymous 3w

U say no to farts imma do it anyways 😫💨

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Anonymous 3w

Depends on the situation but its never their fault. Yea they couldve been a bit smarter but normally theyre pressured or threatened

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Anonymous 3w

Responsibility *

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Good call out now i gotta rewrite the whole damn thing. Stupid autocorrect 😂😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

idk as someone who grew up with their boundaries being ignored it’s hard. i’ve said no to plenty of things but the real issue lies within the people who push and make it so uncomfortable u just say “fine”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

i agree ty

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

agreed 100%, my reply was sarcastic

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

sorry i cant tell over text my bad😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

nah you don’t gotta be sorry 🫡 I’m autistic lol, I know how it goes

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