literally every man I’ve ever known closely (romantic, friendly, and familial) has hurt or abused or used me in some fucking way and it’s making me a misandrist.
Not to victim blame but I think you may need to sharpen your discernment on who you let in your life. It’s a pattern. I suggest therapy to figure it out
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Anonymous2w
Sounds like a you problem
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Anonymous#22w
oh most definitely its a pattern but it’s not like they’re outwardly bad people when I first meet them. a lot of them start off chill and nice and I only find out much later that they were lying and had ulterior motives or some hidden bad side
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Anonymous#22w
I usually ditch them by that point but only after the surprise damage had been done
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Anonymoushuje_rekshon2w
yeah let’s blame the people who got hurt and abused instead of the people who did the hurting, that makes sense