
Hi OP. That is me. I am a virgin by choice and most of my guy friends drifted away due to bro culture and I just have female friends. It’s sad to see overtime their bad experiences because a guy’s pleasure becomes emotional trauma for the woman that can lead to mental health problems. One friend wanted me to hang out and she wanted to cuddle. I didn’t think of anything sexual. Later on she fell into mental health issues because bad parents and bad boyfriend.
She fell asleep by my side as I did and she was at peace because her parents, family, nor her boyfriend don’t do that where they see how she feels and give emotional support. Sometimes people want to be seen and heard. As I reach old age years into the future, these memories want to have.
Yeah great example on how not everything people do is sexual!! There’s so much stigma on it and some people still don’t know I sometimes have sleepovers at my guy friends cause they don’t believe it’s platonic but in actuality they are a great support system for me and I’m greatful I feel safe enough to do so. We don’t have attraction to eachother and nothing has ever happened it’s just a safe space