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I’m not desperate but I’m extremely horny. I’ve never had a friends with benefits but want one or at least someone to explore with. As a (pretty) attractive female how should I go about asking a guy for this
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Anonymous 14w

Wait for someone special, seriously. Get a vibrator in the meantime. It won’t cause emotional damage

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Seconding this bc post nut clarity is for gals as well. Also it helps so dang much to “know yourself” before sleeping w anyone. If you still want a FWB after a sesh or two, def go with someone you know mildly well and trust to be a safe person- safety above all else! No dicking is worth dealing w an STD or asshole behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

Just for the sake of experience it is not worth it. Society is very sex focused and it’s easy to feel like you need to join in on the fun. Being intimate in any capacity can get very real very fast and if they don’t care about you, it feels like absolute shit

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