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Being raised by a single mother has taught me that men are only wanted when they’re useful
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Anonymous 17w

i was raised by a single dad and it taught me not to ride a dirt bike with no helmet + how to make ribs in a rotisserie

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Anonymous 17w

My mom worked while going to college while still cooking healthy homemade meals and kept the house clean with no help from anyone (but child me trying to contribute to chores). One of the biggest things that taught me is that there’s no excuse for laziness

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Anonymous 17w

Crazy thing is guys will want a girl even if she isn’t being very useful ❤️‍🩹

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Anonymous 17w

that’s a bummer. I promise you not all single mothers move that way though. she was likely reacting to a pattern of having been undervalued by men herself

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Anonymous 17w

I mean it’s not like most of them bring anything else like personality or being a decent human being to the table

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Anonymous 17w

Makes sense lmao

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Anonymous 17w

Strong words

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Anonymous 17w

I remember reading an article on this group of women who go to a recreation center (or was it a retirement home?), and their husbands all just wait outside for them. They soon found a shed out back with a technician- and they all congregated and worked on bettering the place for their wives (making furniture, setting up events). It showed that men tend to need to feel useful in order to better accept love. This is a gross simplification but I think it gets the point across.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

Thank you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Keep preaching queen

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

Its sucks being right sometimes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

It does but speak your truth

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 17w

W dad

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

What a terrible way to look at a whole gender. I hope you find a reason that will change your mind one day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

Men usually have more personality

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

It’s a sad reality and a difficult inequality

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 17w

nah this is just misogyny on your end

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