Anonymous #1 14h

I get you’re busy, but you’re not on your phone for three days straight lol

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Anonymous #1 14h

No right!? Like it literally takes nothing just to send a quick response to what I’m asking you I’m more busy then he is half the time and still find a way to do it like you can get off the game for six seconds to respond holy fuck

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Anonymous #2 14h

Multiple times he just says “I don’t check my phone much” and I’ve said well check it more because I do sometimes ask him time sensitive things I need to know and he’s like okay I’ll do it and never does

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Anonymous OP 14h

Then yeah he needs to set up an alert or something

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Anonymous #2 14h

thing is I know he checks his phone like he resposts stuff on Instagram meanwhile hasn’t responded to my text in 12 hours so he sees it he just doesn’t text me back

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Anonymous OP 14h

Then yeah you need to talk about it more or break up

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Anonymous #2 14h

I don’t wanna break off a four year relationship just cause of texts but there isn’t any talking about it more this has been a once a week convo for 2 years

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Anonymous OP 14h

Yeah you definitely don’t but that’s a sign he doesn’t see you as a priority and doesn’t value your feelings

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Anonymous #2 14h

Unfortunately :/

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Anonymous OP 14h

Like I would hate to break up over that also but it’s not just texting. Like you value it

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Anonymous #2 14h

Yeah I see your point! I’ll consider talking to him more seriously again about it and just see how he responds because it’s more than just the texting unfortunately

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Anonymous OP 14h

And like I totally get it if you’re not in the mood to like talk to someone, but just let me know. You’re not in the mood. There needs to be a class in school on how to properly communicate. I can never tell if she’s actually mad at me or she’s just busy and causes me so much anxiety

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Anonymous OP 14h

Does he have like a bunch of unanswered texts or something? There’s like always a red notification on his phone? Because if you get rid of that, maybe he’ll check his text more

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Anonymous #1 14h

Nope just mine

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Anonymous #1 14h

No right!! Like a little clarification would help like quick text “hey babe busy can’t talk right now love u” that’s it

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Anonymous OP 14h

Exactly!!! don’t even get me started on communicating feelings sometimes, I understand everyone has their own pace of how they want to share their feelings. But if you just sit around, not telling someone how you feel, it’s just gonna get worse. And instead people just don’t let people know what’s going on. The worst part is when they finally do respond they don’t even answer the question. They just apologize for not responding. MF ANSWER ME

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Anonymous #1 14h

BRO RIGHT OH MY GOD the just being like “sorry didn’t see this” bro answer my fucking question oh my god 😭 and yes I hate the being mad and never telling you what’s wrong but expecting you to fix it like what am I supposed to do

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Anonymous OP 14h

It’s even worse with the excuses. I remember there was a three day. Period. Where my girlfriend just didn’t text me but I texted her every day just like a good morning and checking in. (has one does in a relationship.) Then she responds “ I wasn’t on my phone for three days” it’s the excuse that pisses me off so much just own up to your shit!!!!!! Even if you don’t even need to mean it just say it. And sometimes there’s not even an apology

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Anonymous #1 14h

Right like just be honest!! The bs excuses are so annoying ugh I’m sorry!

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Anonymous OP 13h

Listen vent this stuff is very important to talk about with people

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