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My bf and I both agreed that we don’t want to meet each other’s batshit insane families woooo

608 upvotes, 45 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Confessions. "My bf and I both agreed that we don’t want to meet each other’s batshit insane families woooo"

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Anonymous 1d

Not gonna work longterm, enjoy it while it lasts 💝

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Anonymous 1d

That just mean yall aren’t serious

Anonymous 1d

That wedding is gonna be abysmal if you even make it that far

Anonymous 1d

Literally in the same position, bf said he’d love to meet my family and while he met my mom and grandma, I think that’s all he should see. I’m meeting all of his family and I love them greatly! :,) just mine is..hm. Very very abusive.

Anonymous 1d

That’s so nice. One of my big fears is my future partner wanting to meet my family, but I don’t want that at all. My family is incredibly toxic and abusive in various ways. My family has gotten involved in every relationship I’ve had, crossing major boundaries, and make horrible comments about my partners and myself. I refuse to let my future partner get exposed to my family’s toxicity. I cry often about how I’ll never get a traditional wedding like in the movies, but it’s for the best.

Anonymous 5h

The way people aren’t understanding this feels like victim blaming adjacent

Anonymous 1d

Yea I like you. Not the rest of them

Anonymous 1d

earnestly love this for the both of you. the way I see it, part of my responsibility towards people I love is to protect them from being exposed to my creepy inappropriate parents

Anonymous 1d

I want to meet his but he refuses to ever meet mine, how is that gonna work?

Anonymous 1d

Thankful that my boyfriend’s parents are dead and my parents don’t talk to me so we never have to go through that stage

Anonymous 1d

PRISSEAAYAYAYA

Anonymous 1d

🙌🙌🙌🙌

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beestboy 1d

Pffft💀 alright 🙄 why wouldn’t it work long term?

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Anonymous

#2 1d

“Hey there’s this big part of my life that has severely impacted me and is pretty much 50% if not more responsible for why I am the way that I am, and I don’t want you to be meet those people at all” is a horrible long term strategy

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beestboy 1d

No I want him to meet them he just refuses to cuz he know they crazy and will never change, why would he want to insert himself into that

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Anonymous

#2 1d

Because u want him to meet them and he doesn’t 💀

Anonymous

#2 1d

i think he was responding to OP, since he didn’t respond to you. idk tho

Anonymous

beestboy 1d

first time i agreed with you ugh

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Anonymous

#6 1d

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#2 1d

Not sure honestly. We both can’t stand our families and are pretty estranged

Anonymous

beestboy 1d

Yeah so in our cases, we’re both heavily estranged from our families and literally moved 1500 miles away from them because we hate them. They’re not a big part of either of our lives lol

Anonymous

OP 1d

family is very important but i think what the couple is worry most about is starting their own family. so they are both safe.

Anonymous

#8 1d

Agreed:)

Anonymous

#9 1d

diabolical

Anonymous

#9 1d

Elopement 🎉

Anonymous

OP 1d

5 weddings! same couple!! different destinations 😝

Anonymous

beestboy 1d

you can’t family but people change yk

Anonymous

#12 1d

All families are weird. Especially with outsiders

Anonymous

#4 1d

? why are you replying about family being “weird” when #12 was talking about their family being abusive

Anonymous

#13 1d

i sorry the parents are dead 🩷

Anonymous

#8 1d

My boyfriend is old, I knew what I was getting myself into. They passed years ago before I had even met my boyfriend, but thank you, I appreciate it.

Anonymous

#13 1d

anytime (:

Anonymous

#10 1d

Abusive isn’t weird?

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beestboy 23h

normally what makes or breaks a relationship is the two people actually in the relationship, not the family that they hate lmao

Anonymous

#4 23h

not all families are abusive, a lot of families are weird but they’re not comparable to actual abuse

Anonymous

OP 23h

Ignore beest boy. He’s a grown man that gets off on “trolling” when in reality he just gets on here to project. Never take advice from losers like him.

Anonymous

#7 23h

👆 nothing more special than trusting someone enough to know they wont judge you

Anonymous

#16 20h

i like him (:

Anonymous

#15 20h

All same

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Anonymous

#14 19h

That’s so understandable. I also come from a deeply overly involved and dysfunctional family, so I moved away from them and met him. I told him straight up that my family isn’t going to approve and it’s best just to not meet them. He said the only person he would like to meet is my grandma or father to one day ask their blessing to marry me. It’s one of those things where I’m like 😬 that’s not gonna go over well brother. But if you talk to your partner about it, they’re bound to understand

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OP 19h

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#8 17h

You want a cookie or something??

Anonymous

#16 17h

you prolly want the jar. 🫙

Anonymous

#8 17h

You can do better

Anonymous

#18 3h

sure seems like some people’s immediate kneejerk response to hearing “my family is abusive” is to try to dismiss the other person