these days it’s hard to find a half decent guy who isn’t addicted to the idea of sex. speaking as a man who has fallen down that pathway, and am struggling to find the lord to help me out, if a man isn’t willing to spend years without your body, he isn’t worth your time. My and my girl have been going two years and haven’t been sexually involved (but we’ve been tempted). The right person will come, but He has to provide

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Be what you want to attract! If you’re comfortable being “overweight” then that’s okay, you’ll attract guys that are also okay with that. If you say no to sex, you’ll attract guys who say no to sex. Never sell out to your desires if they feel wrong, but guilt and shame (conviction) don’t often lead to people making decisions that make them happy, unless they feel accomplished and satisfied being “good” which is real and a worthwhile thing but now you’re talking about “works based” love.

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