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Dating 18w
Come to terms with the fact that I’m only good enough to fuck not to date🥳
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Anonymous 18w

Hold ur head high. It’s a marathon not a sprint. You’re time will come

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Anonymous 18w

you are tho. you’re just finding the wrong pole. stop fucking people you’re not dating, and work on yourself and your selection criteria

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Anonymous 18w

Boundaries ✨

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Anonymous 18w

I’m not saying is your fault. It’s hookup cultures fault. In the past it was seen as immoral and socially criminal to have pre marital sex. The guy HAD to date you and quite possibly had to marry you before it was socially acceptable to have sex. By taking that expectation of marriage away before having sex men stopped courting. Why would they court you when they know you or some other woman will let them hit BEFORE starting a relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18w

I know you may have meant well with this comment, but women often feel this way not even because of choices they make, but because that’s all men offer to us. We aren’t asked on dates or given flowers, men just ask us to send nudes or come over and fuck. Even women who don’t participate in those things, they will be asked them. That’s probably the feeling she was trying to describe.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18w

ty. I have my life together I’m not a mess, it just tends to be a pattern of men either leaving once they realize what they won’t get what they want or getting me to lower my guard down by being the sweetest ever and being so patient asking me to dates then saying they’re not ready to date after they get what they want. apologies if I did wrong by giving the genuine looking ones a chance too idk what else is left🧍🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18w

men didn’t stop courting. there are still men that want more than just sex. the ones that just want sex don’t court

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18w

Bottom line is if it’s no longer a requirement to be in a relationship before sex, why would they pursue a relationship when they can get the sex without it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18w

because some people actually want relationships for more than sex 😭 are you even hearing yourself ? you’re saying that men only want relationships because they get access to sex. and that’s just not true for all men. there are men who want the companionship and intimacy of a committed relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

sorry didn’t mean to be harsh. i’m a woman too and i know there are good romantic guys who still court and put in effort, because i’ve had a few of them. i know a lot of women struggle with finding those kinda guys but don’t give up

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18w

And where did I say I let all these men hit before dating them. I never said such a thing. I am only saying I’m desired more sexually than I am romantically I didn’t ask for advice I didn’t ask for any input I’m just ranting as it’s a pattern I’ve noticed sue me

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 18w

Read my reply to 5✨

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Good enough to fuck but not to date implies they don’t wanna date you they wanna fuck you 😂😂 And I’m saying that’s because women today will let men hot workout the commitment of a relationship. So of course some men are going to approach you with lust in their eyes and not love

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