Anonymous #2 8w

Just treat us as you would treat a guy friend, don’t assume anything other than platonic unless we say otherwise

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Anonymous #3 8w

So wait for the girl to initiate? I’m reading everywhere that girls waits for the guy to initiate…. :/

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Anonymous #2 8w

Idk it’s so tough bc on one hand I wanna say you can defff feel the vibe but I think porn and social media has ruined ppls brains so now guys think any little bit of common decency and kindness means boom she’s into me when that’s very much not the case

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Anonymous #3 8w

Porn and social media my ass. How about you just be upfront and stop playing mind games.

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Anonymous #4 8w

Nobody is playing mind games that’s the porn sick brain talking. A girl can be nice to you without wanting anything to do with you. We’re taught to be nice to weird creepy men bc they may attack us if we’re “upfront” don’t you think it’s a problem that men respect “i have a boyfriend” more than “I’m not interested” why do you think so many women say that when they don’t? It’s not a personal attack but if u don’t think porn and social media have rotted ppls brains it’s bc you’re already lost

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Anonymous #3 8w

If social media has rotted anyone’s brains it’s women’s

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Anonymous #4 8w

Well I agree that women do unfortunately suffer from body image issues disproportionately to men bc of how the media portrays us waking up with full faces of makeup, models always airbrushed, etc but as for porn? That’s mostly a male issue. And that’s what ruins developing brains and relationships and marriages and gives ppl (young boys especially) these violent tendencies (choking and spanking and more violent sex acts have become INCREDIBLY more common since porn) and skewed perception of what

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Anonymous #3 8w

You’re hopeless

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Anonymous #3 8w

Relationships and flirting and sex should look like, and it all stems from there. That’s how they view women. That’s how they think they should treat women. It’s an EPIDEMIC. And not even just the porn, the stupid podcasts by extremist right wing racists and shit and all the tiktok shit ab “high value men” etc it goes on and on and on it’s poisoning young boys brains on another level.

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Anonymous #4 8w

I highly recommend you go watch a show called adolescence on Netflix if u have it

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Anonymous #4 8w

You realize the fallacy there right?? “Yea all guys, but not me.” You think that way bc YOU only see female friends as an object of your lust.

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Anonymous #2 8w

what you should have done if you wanted a date with her is specifically ask her to go “on a date” its not hard to be clear with ur intentions

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 8w

exactly thank you. Don’t pretend to be someone’s friend if you’re just trying to get in her pants

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Anonymous #2 8w

You have to actually flirt. Asking me out to lunch is someone you do with acquaintances or friends. If you do not explicitly tell me that you are asking me out, I will assume you just want to be friends.

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Anonymous #4 8w

My friends have told me all about girls they had crushes on. Gushed about their gfs to me. Would a man who wants to get in my pants constantly talk about how much he loves another girl?

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