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Dating 22w
How it feels breaking stereotypes by being a woman whose avoidant
1067 upvotes. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Dating. "How it feels breaking stereotypes by being a woman whose avoidant"
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Anonymous 22w

This photo is majestic

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Anonymous 22w

Kakyoin?

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Anonymous 22w

that would make a sick fortnite skin

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Anonymous 22w

Great Britain cloud

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Anonymous 22w

As someone who is avoidant-dismissive this shit does not feel good don’t glamorize it

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Anonymous 22w

Is that fucking Kakyoin

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Anonymous 22w

looks just like a donut

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Anonymous 22w

I dated an avoidant woman for 2.5 years and that shit fucked me up and now I’m avoidant too

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Anonymous 22w

AYE THIS IS ME

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Anonymous 22w

The manifest destiny ahh cloud 😭

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Anonymous 22w

Wish I could trade

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

rip💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 22w
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Anonymous replying to -> #22 22w

That’s not how attachment styles work. They form in childhood from improper care from parents. Unless she was breastfeeding and burping you, it’s probably just unworked relationship issues

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22w

It’s my lived experience, I don’t know what to tell you. All I’m saying is I never had issues with that before and now I do. I find myself pulling the same shit on other people that she used to pull on me when I never used to be like that. It wasn’t glamorous dating someone like that and it’s not glamorous being someone like that either. It’s a constant struggle that has stuck with me for years now.

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 22w

I’ve been avoidant all my life I know it’s not glamorous I was just making a joke🙄. I thought we avoidants weren’t supposed to be in our feelings smh.

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