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Dating 10w
reminder to stay vigilant! bc my long term bf (nicest man i’ve ever dated btw) was actually texting multiple girls behind my back including his ex from before me and then deleting conversations. went almost a year never checking his phone bc i trusted him
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Anonymous 9w

He doesn’t sound very nice

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Anonymous 9w

this my exact situation.. 5 years no cheating, no trust broken, nothing.. a month ago his whole personality switched & i went through his phone..

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Anonymous 9w

No what… ugh this gives me anxiety. Do I need to go through my bfs phone?

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Anonymous 9w

DEADASS the same thing happened with me! I am all about being an adult and respecting each other's space and privacy but he was acting so so weird. Checked his phone after almost a year together and bam, all the dating apps imaginable. Even had weird unsaved numbers pinned on his iMessage. Its hard dating knowing that everything you had can come crashing down because of the lack of self control

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

dude i’m so sorry. it’s so fucking awful. i thought he was gonna be the father of my children. i wish i knew what i did to make him evil

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

dude i have a ring and everything I thought he was gonna be my husband I haven’t even broke up with him yet

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Don’t even blame yourself that’s just gonna make you feel so much worse whatever he did to you is on him in his personality. It has nothing to do with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I know it sucks, cause girl. I’m feeling it too, but it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with your significant other.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

THEY aren’t happy and thats an eternal issue for them

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

WHY have so many of us experienced this!!! ridiculous!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

You picked a loser and were bad at reading the signs. Take the L and try to do better next time 😕

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

what??? he was completely normal and sweet to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

i’m gonna be real with you. yes you do. you can ask first or not tell him, but do it. wasted months trying to make it work with someone who didn’t want me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Okay I appreciate the honesty.. so what should I do if he tries to take the phone away when I scroll really far down, like wayyy back in his message history. Ugh

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

First of all, ew. You act as though people can't be good actors, signs are NOT always there and not always obvious. We shouldn't be solely to blame for how weird someone else's behavior is

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

well mine didn’t delete the last three messages with his ex bc (in his own words) “i thought it was far enough down that you wouldn’t see it in my message history so i didn’t need to delete it” so 😐

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

you must be a man.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

no bruhhh what I’m sick

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

i was too 😍

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

if he has an iphone you can also look at the deleted messages within the last month! on his imessage you go up in the corner to “Edit” and then at the bottom “Show recently deleted”

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

I did it and it was all just like spam junk texts

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