when hes drunk AND sober, he always sits a little too close for comfort, he never moves away if were next to eachother and our knees, legs, or arms touch, and overall hes very flirty with me (he may not be and i may just not know social cues). But heres the catch: we’re both in long term relationships. Now I am madly in love with my man and wouldnt leave him for the world… but him on the other hand… idk what his deal is. other people have picked up on this and have started questioning us.

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im just worried that my boyfriend will get too into his head about all this and leave me. what do i do!! i dont want to be like “hey stop flirting with me” because who knows if he even is!!! also his gf is so sweet and beautiful i would hate for anything bad to happen to her! help!!!

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Tbh, i’d just set a boundary with him. Like “hey, i’m not a big fan of when people drunk text me” or something like that. See if he respects it, and also see if he acts weird about it. It’s a way to shut down the behavior without putting it out there that you think he’s flirting

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