my ex of 3.5 years during hs was an alc+drug addict throughout the majority of our relationship and also had ocd and (at the time) undiagnosed bipolar. a year after we separated, he got into a relationship with a girl who was a year below us in hs (they are now currently engaged, this all happened less than 2 years ago), meanwhile i’m single and in college trying to make sense of all the trauma he left me with. reading this inspired me to believe that he will eventually get his comeuppance.