For context of why I was worried: I really wanted to be happy she was engaged, but she tried to unalive herself while i was on the phone with her during one of their arguments and it kind of traumatized me. I tried to get over that, but a year later she had another episode like that where she broke up with him, threw things, disassociated, just to pretend nothing happened and get engaged to him 3 weeks later. It was too quick of a turn around for me not to be really concerned

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