Anonymous #1 3w

No just adhd

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Anonymous OP 3w

Ok this is creepy. I understand wanting to relate to a guy but it’s weird to sexualize autistic men. They’re so much more than “special interests and intense eye contact” you’re describing them like a little kid and it’s really weird. Date a guy for what kind of person he is. As someone whose autistic if anyone said they were into me BECAUSE I was autistic it would feel really fucking creepy

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Anonymous #1 3w

Not everything is a weird fetish. I was saying I liked those qualities about him and want him biblically. I was wanting him biblically before he told me he was autistic, calm down. I didn't word it "man who is autistic" and worded it "autistic man" it sounded better.

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Anonymous #1 3w

Also I never said I was only into him because he is autistic, you did that. It’s Giving strawman.

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Anonymous OP 3w

But you’re acting like it is. Wtf does wanting someone biblically even mean? You’re pointing out his autism like it’s his main attribute and common symptoms/stereo-types of it. Imaging if someone was like “Omg I need an ADHD girl, they’re so quirky and talk a lot!” That feels demeaning right? Especially if that person doesn’t even have ADHD.

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Anonymous OP 3w

I literally didn’t either so chill. If someone said they were into ME bc I was autistic that would freak me out” ur tryna start a fight for nothing

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Anonymous dark_blue_otter45 2w

I will look into this bless

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Anonymous #1 2w

I said a statement without much context. I didn’t “act” any type of way, you are making very harmful assumptions with little information. I said biblically because I need him biblically, not much to add about that. I sorry you’ve never wanted someone biblically, google it or something. Also tbh if I told someone I had adhd and they said they liked I called a lot it would make me feel good, it’s usually a trait people don’t like so I would be flattered.

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Anonymous #1 2w

It is okay to like a trait about someone that is common with a disorder/ disability, it doesn’t mean that you like that trait because it’s associated with those things. I’m sorry you clearly don’t have people in your life who likes the traits your autism displays. Just because you wouldn’t find it acceptable for someone to like commonly negative traits that you display with your autism doesn’t mean others can’t.

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Anonymous OP 2w

*talked

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Anonymous OP 2w

You keep putting words in my mouth man. This conversation is going nowhere. Maybe actually listen to others concerns next time

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