guys who say they’re a “dom” and then not let you have a say in what happens during the deed, ignores your needs, and doesn’t give you aftercare are just abusers. Please actually look up what these terms mean.
no bc this is exactly why i dont trust men who say theyre kinky or into bdsm. 9/10 times they just wanna get off on abusing women and pretend itd be empowering for them or something
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Anonymous#11d
exactly. Engaging in kink requires CONSENT and TRUST.