I’ve been told to go first so I will~ I would have considered by brother my biggest bully growing up. He’d bribe me to do things with candy, and when I wouldn’t take it he’d force me. One of these times I was just playing in my room with my toothbrush, around 4 or 5 years old when my brother comes in. He tells me that I should go outside and dance naked in front of our two girl neighbors that I got along with pretty well as a girl myself. I told him no, and he started bribing me with candy.

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Aw :((

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I’m so sorry this happened to you. You were just a child and please imagine this moment and try to heal your child heart because this stays w/you… you come back inside and your mom immediately jumps up and covers you and says what happened honey are you ok? Mommy is your superhero and you can tell me anything- I am here to protect you and help you but mommy needs you to tell me the truth. Nothing bad will happen ever again. And she means it…and he gets his ass whipped. And it never happens again

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That’s how it should’ve gone. And if he was much older, he would’ve gone to jail, treatment for a disorder, and then to live with other family to make sure you weren’t ever victimized again.

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My friends son was abusing his two younger siblings who were a boy/girl twins by making them kiss each other… he was 16 and they were 5. He went to jail, then counseling and to live with the grandparents.

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My own worst bullying came from my oldest sister who took me as a young kid in the early 90s to watch Faces of Death movie at her friends house …it was traumatic for me. Then she had me smoke and said awful things to me … she still does it to this day … when my beautiful children were born she said every time she looks at the it makes her sick because she doesn’t like their father. She is a disgusting person. Luckily never had kids of her own. She says awful things to me all the time.

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And our father is a Narcissist who emotionally and verbally abuses our mother.

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