
As a trans person, I have experienced bullshit/discrimination happen to me on public transit, but I don’t have the privilege to not use public transit. I just keep going and I have taken several self defense classes to protect myself. Helping advocate for your community and for women and stepping in when necessary is a good thing to do.
I used to be a chick and as a teen girl my method was look angry/pissy, talk to no one, take up space if not an overcrowded bus. Get gel pepper spray not regular. That way it wont gas out everyone just your target. Have a pocket knife. Have earbuds in always but at medium or low. Deters weirdos talking to you but you can still be aware. And be aware but not paranoid. Its honestly very manageable. Accidents are much more likely. But still I understand the fear.