You can blame an external cause while engaging in proactive solutions

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wrong

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i mean yes but also no. we can be empathetic to people’s situations BUT trauma and a shitty past is not an excuse to be a dickhead

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You have to take ownership, but knowing where it came from helps with the healing process and cuts the issue from the root (with therapy)

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Deadass dude. You can only blame them so much before it reflects on your victim complex and poor me attitude. Use it as a way to grow even if it was bad. Been there done that and I’m doing great.

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tell that to genie wiley

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