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my brother is 24 and lives at home and has no job and my mom told me today that I have to support him and what not when my parents die. i just nodded and said nothing. like fuck no. i get that hes my brother but i refuse to make his life my problem.
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Anonymous 9w

My uncle is the same way in his 40s living with my grandpa. My aunt, his twin, told him if he does come live with her he will be n the basement like the animal he is

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Anonymous 9w

Unless he has special needs you’re 100% right. Even if he has special needs it’s not fair for them to make him your responsibility after they pass honestly

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Anonymous 9w

yeah no don’t do that. it’s his responsibility to find employment, not yours

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

the worat part is that my parents do nothing to push him to find a job. they just occasionally ask if hes looking and interviewing. they say they are worried about him but do absolutely nothing to get him to help himself. they like gave up or something i dont even know

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

When reality hits him to late in life that’s on him and them enabling him.

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